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給二歲的二寶講故事：老爺爺背的大筐好沉啊，嘟嘟熊說，老爺爺，我來幫助您。為了表示感謝，老爺爺送給嘟嘟熊一罐蜂蜜?；丶衣飞?，嘟嘟熊碰見白鵝阿姨在賣小魚小蝦，心想，毛毛球最愛吃小魚小蝦了，我用蜜來換。嘟嘟熊拿著小魚小蝦繼續(xù)走，碰見山羊伯伯在賣水果，他想，小猴淘淘愛吃桃子，我用蜜來換。見河馬奶奶賣干果，嘟嘟熊想，包包鼠愛吃花生，我用蜜來換。小伙伴們看到嘟嘟熊的禮物，特別高興，只剩一滴蜜了，嘟嘟熊想，我也要嘗嘗蜂蜜，它剛要喝，有人拉他的衣服，回頭一看，是一只小小熊，嘟嘟熊看著小小熊喝光了蜜，舔著舌頭問，蜜甜嗎？
故事講完了，我問二寶，嘟嘟熊好嗎？二寶說好，一旁12歲的大寶插話：不好，我最討厭嘟嘟熊了。
大寶也是聽著嘟嘟熊的故事長大的，也曾說過嘟嘟熊“好”，怎么如今如此激烈的給出相反的答案？況且，嘟嘟熊是典型的別人家的孩子，具備一個小孩可能具備的一切美德，懂禮貌，堅強，樂于助人，不挑食，孝順父母……
轉(zhuǎn)念細想，大寶討厭他，就是因為他太完美呀！大寶已經(jīng)12歲，具備了類似成人的思維，但她又不會像成人那樣將討厭放在心里，所以明確表示她討厭完美。<br></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 255); font-size: 21px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-indent: 28px;">02</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋體; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px;">不由想起了文學(xué)史上兩個明星人物，賈誼和蘇軾。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">賈誼，西漢人，</span>23<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">歲成為博士，提出了較有預(yù)見性的見解，認為西漢的內(nèi)憂是藩王權(quán)力過大，外患是匈奴，深受漢文帝器重，引得一些元老總在皇帝身邊說他壞話，以至三人成虎。在中國，流言向來極具殺傷力，文帝終于聽信了不實舉報，貶賈誼為長沙王太傅，不久召回，做文帝最喜愛的小兒子梁王太傅。梁王墮馬而死，賈誼抑郁而終。</span></h3><p style="font-size: 25.5px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">蘇軾，北宋人，年輕時就才氣外顯，受人嫉妒，后因烏臺詩案被牽連，小人囂張跋扈，尋章摘句，落井下石，蘇軾受牢獄之災(zāi)，幸得赦免，被貶黃州。在那里，衣食不足，窮困潦倒。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">賈誼和蘇東坡雖隔了千年，但有著同樣的遭遇，他們都因過人之才而受到庸人的嫉妒中傷。不同的是結(jié)局，賈誼英年早逝，徒留后人憑吊</span>“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">寂寂江山搖落處，憐君何事到天涯</span>”“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">可憐夜半虛前席，不問蒼生問鬼神</span>”……<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">蘇軾于東坡，墾田開荒，于困境中突圍。留下《念奴嬌</span>.<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">赤壁懷古》和《赤壁賦》這樣的千古絕唱。</span></h3><h3><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 21px; color: rgb(102, 0, 255); word-wrap: break-word !important;">03</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">大學(xué)時同寢室的老大和老八，如今遭遇的事也頗令人玩味。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">老大是個才女，為人謙和，畢業(yè)后去了市里最好的高中，如今做著他們學(xué)校引以為豪的清北預(yù)科班的班主任，老公是高中同學(xué)，經(jīng)營一家不小的酒城，婚后生了龍鳳胎，孩子和我大女兒同齡。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有一天聊天，她說活的真累，一點都不快樂。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">聽完這句話，我忍不住無名火起，：</span>“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">沒想到你如今成了這么不真實的人??！作為老師，你在最好的學(xué)校教最好的班級；作為妻子，家庭和睦，老公多金；作為母親，你一次生了龍鳳胎。你這赤裸裸地變相炫耀，讓我這個抓政策尾巴近</span>40<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">歲高齡才生二胎，在小鎮(zhèn)上茍延殘喘的同學(xué)情何以堪？</span>”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">別鬧，</span>”<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她說，</span>“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我是認真的。</span>”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在學(xué)校帶好班，壓力更大，考得好是學(xué)生素質(zhì)高，考不好是老師教的差。同事遠遠觀望，感覺憑什么你來教好班，你又沒有三頭六臂，還不是走了狗屎運。在學(xué)校太累太忙，常常無暇顧及孩子，老公抱怨為什么不教個普通班，又想當個好媽媽，又想干一番大事業(yè)。因為對學(xué)生要求嚴，很多學(xué)生又不理解。</span>”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我忽然想起了多年前喜歡的一檔綜藝節(jié)目</span>“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">挑戰(zhàn)主持人</span>”<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">，每有選手被淘汰，主持人馬東總說</span>“<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你可能委屈，你可能不服，可是對不起，你被淘汰了。</span>”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">于是對老大說，你可能委屈，也可能不服，可是對不起，你躺著中槍了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">老八自私心眼小，愛耍小聰明，經(jīng)常貪大家小便宜，我們因為虛長了人家?guī)自禄驓q余不好意思拆穿，又忍不住被侮辱了智商的難過。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">老八膚淺愛美，上學(xué)時熱衷于戀愛，不喜歡讀書，畢業(yè)后在其他旗縣的學(xué)校上班，擅長人際關(guān)系，講課能力一般，但能哄得孩子們高興，經(jīng)常在朋友圈曬曬孩子們逢年過節(jié)贈送的小禮物。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; white-space: normal; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 21px; color: rgb(102, 0, 255); word-wrap: break-word !important;">04</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 25.5px; letter-spacing: 0.816px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; text-indent: 28px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋體; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我曾經(jīng)有個學(xué)生發(fā)言特別積極，忽然有一天他不再主動回答問題了，我問他緣故，他委屈地哭了，說大家怪他回答問題太多，都孤立他，任我怎么開導(dǎo)，他都成了沉默的小伙伴。因為擔(dān)心他從那么多話到默然不語會有諸多不適應(yīng)，影響學(xué)習(xí)甚至價值取向，我經(jīng)常私下把他叫到辦公室，問他對某個問題的看法，幸虧他在我面前還能侃侃而談。如今他仍然經(jīng)常與我聯(lián)系，感謝我陪他走過那些日子。</span></h3> <h3>
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寫下這些，我不由慨嘆，做一個“好”人真的那么難嗎？
我無法給出處方，但我想，若我們是那個“好”人，不妨堅持做自己；若我們是那庸人，就別為難好人。<br></h3>