<section class="" data-tools="135編輯器" data-id="88405" style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 1em; padding-left: 1em; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); line-height: 1.8;" style="padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); line-height: 1.8; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">也許人生的常態(tài)就是孤獨(dú)，但希望天亮后，孤獨(dú)的人能有人陪伴，不孤獨(dú)的人能珍惜眼前人。</span></span></h3></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(251, 251, 251); word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify; font-size: 17px;">因?yàn)楣ぷ髟颍卸螘r(shí)間，我的微信加了3000個(gè)陌生好友，但基本都沒(méi)聊過(guò)天。</span><br></h3><section style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(251, 251, 251); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">前</span><span style="text-align: justify;">兩天突然有個(gè)女孩發(fā)信息給我：在嗎？</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;"></span><span style="text-align: justify;">本著服務(wù)客戶(hù)的理念，我開(kāi)始跟她溝通，結(jié)果這一溝通，就從中午一點(diǎn)聊到了下午五點(diǎn)，期間我們還語(yǔ)音通話(huà)了一個(gè)多小時(shí)。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">我</span><span style="text-align: justify;">問(wèn)姑娘：為什么要找我這個(gè)陌生人聊這么久呢？</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">姑娘說(shuō)：就是因?yàn)槟吧拍芰倪@么久啊。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;"><br></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">我</span><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">瞬間無(wú)語(yǔ)凝噎，腦海中不由蹦出一句話(huà)：我們都太孤獨(dú)了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">前陣子有個(gè)視頻刷爆了網(wǎng)絡(luò)。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">華</span><span style="text-align: justify;">為邀請(qǐng)一群普通人做了一場(chǎng)實(shí)驗(yàn)性測(cè)試。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">測(cè)</span><span style="text-align: justify;">試員讓受訪(fǎng)者在不看手機(jī)的情況下猜猜自己手機(jī)上有多少聯(lián)系人，之后讓他們一個(gè)個(gè)刪除不會(huì)主動(dòng)聯(lián)系的人，接著是刪掉工作應(yīng)酬需要的人，到最后剩下能說(shuō)真心話(huà)的人。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; text-align: justify;">通</span><span style="font-weight: 700; text-align: justify;">訊錄從最開(kāi)始的1000多人，到最后僅剩3個(gè)人，這種變化讓所有人都沉默了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">之</span><span style="text-align: justify;">后，測(cè)試員又讓受訪(fǎng)者打電話(huà)給很久沒(méi)聯(lián)系的朋友。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">其</span><span style="text-align: justify;">中有一個(gè)受訪(fǎng)者打電話(huà)給朋友，對(duì)方說(shuō)了兩句，就掛了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">看</span><span style="text-align: justify;">著他一個(gè)人坐在那里，孤獨(dú)的像一只被遺棄的小狗，內(nèi)心不由跟著一陣顫抖。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">不知道從什么時(shí)候開(kāi)始，兩個(gè)無(wú)話(huà)不說(shuō)的人變成了無(wú)話(huà)可說(shuō)。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">翻</span><span style="text-align: justify;">開(kāi)通訊錄，上面滿(mǎn)滿(mǎn)的人名，卻找不到一個(gè)可以分享此刻心情的人。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們看似交友廣泛，從天南到地北，從江湖到廟堂，好像沒(méi)有一個(gè)我們不認(rèn)識(shí)的，但真正交心的寥寥無(wú)幾，甚至連一個(gè)都沒(méi)有。</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">去</span><span style="text-align: justify;">年回家和幾個(gè)朋友聚了一下，談到高中一個(gè)同學(xué)結(jié)婚了的時(shí)候，老張明顯愣了下。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">“什么時(shí)候結(jié)的？”</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">“</span><span style="text-align: justify;">就年初啊，聽(tīng)說(shuō)新娘很漂亮?！?lt;/span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">老</span><span style="text-align: justify;">張囁嚅了下嘴，喃喃道：“這小子，當(dāng)初明明說(shuō)好了，結(jié)婚一定要叫我的。”</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">記得有一期《康熙來(lái)了》邀請(qǐng)了謝娜。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; text-align: justify;">節(jié)目中，謝娜問(wèn)了小S一句話(huà)：什么時(shí)候你感覺(jué)離朋友最遠(yuǎn)？</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">小S說(shuō)：</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;">當(dāng)我看到她穿著我沒(méi)見(jiàn)過(guò)的衣服，在沒(méi)有我的地方拍了照片，標(biāo)注的是我不知道的事，評(píng)論的是我不認(rèn)識(shí)的人的時(shí)候。</span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;"><br></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">謝</span><span style="text-align: justify;">娜搖了搖頭回道：</span><br></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;">都不是，是照片里她周?chē)娜四愣颊J(rèn)識(shí)，但是你卻從未知道她們做了這件事。</span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">什么是孤獨(dú)呢？</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">大</span><span style="font-weight: 700; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); text-align: justify;">概就是某天你突然回頭，發(fā)現(xiàn)原本站在你身邊的人不見(jiàn)了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">你</span><span style="text-align: justify;">站在原地張望，這才發(fā)現(xiàn)你們已經(jīng)走在不同的兩條道上了。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">你張開(kāi)嘴想喊，卻不知道要說(shuō)些什么。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="text-align: justify;">最</span><span style="text-align: justify;">后只能無(wú)奈嘆息，一個(gè)人繼續(xù)往前走。</span><br></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">在抖音看過(guò)一個(gè)視頻，采訪(fǎng)者問(wèn)路人小哥：“你覺(jué)得自己能跟最好的朋友借到多少錢(qián)呢？”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">小哥斟酌了下，自信說(shuō)道：“應(yīng)該能借到5萬(wàn)吧。”</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">于是采訪(fǎng)者讓路人當(dāng)場(chǎng)打電話(huà)跟朋友借錢(qián)。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">電話(huà)接通后，對(duì)方很熱情地攀談著。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">直到小哥說(shuō)到借錢(qián)這事的時(shí)候，那邊明顯遲疑了一下。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">接著各種借口新鮮出爐，說(shuō)錢(qián)沒(méi)在銀行卡上，說(shuō)沒(méi)什么現(xiàn)金。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">小哥拿著手機(jī)，看著采訪(fǎng)者，微張著嘴唇，眼里滿(mǎn)是張皇失措，那個(gè)表情現(xiàn)在還印在我腦海里。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎上有個(gè)話(huà)題：你最孤獨(dú)的時(shí)刻是什么？</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">底下有很多扎心的評(píng)論。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">其中一條是知友趙咸魚(yú)的：突然覺(jué)得很多原本親密無(wú)間的伙伴并沒(méi)有把我當(dāng)朋友。</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我想，那一刻大概是小哥人生中最孤獨(dú)的一次了。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">沒(méi)有一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)防備，就這樣被最好的朋友“背叛”了。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">幾年前看過(guò)一部電影——《第六感》。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">8歲的小男孩科爾擁有一種超凡的能力，能看透世界，與鬼魂交流。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">這種能力即使對(duì)一個(gè)心智成熟的成年人來(lái)說(shuō)，都是一種不可思議，難以接受的能力，何況是一個(gè)小孩。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">所以當(dāng)身邊不時(shí)出現(xiàn)一個(gè)個(gè)保留著恐怖死狀的鬼魂時(shí)，科爾感到極度害怕。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">他把這件事告訴母親，但母親并不相信他，反而認(rèn)為是他在惡作劇。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">久而久之，他學(xué)會(huì)了獨(dú)立思考，獨(dú)立面對(duì)。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">雖然每當(dāng)夜深人靜，一個(gè)人的時(shí)候，他還是會(huì)被嚇得躲在被子里，瑟瑟發(fā)抖。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">這樣的情況持續(xù)了很久，直到心理醫(yī)生麥克的出現(xiàn)，在他的幫助下，科爾才慢慢敞開(kāi)胸懷，得到救贖。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">當(dāng)初看這部電影的時(shí)候，以為是驚悚片，但是看完卻幾度飆淚。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">電影里，科爾告訴麥克醫(yī)生自己能看到鬼魂時(shí)，醫(yī)生也是不相信的，甚至認(rèn)為他是在愚弄自己。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">直到科爾含著眼淚說(shuō)道：“你如果不相信我的話(huà)，你怎么能夠幫我？”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">麥克醫(yī)生才決定相信科爾。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">其實(shí)成年人的生活何嘗不是這樣呢？</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">記得去年一個(gè)得了抑郁癥的朋友找我聊天，說(shuō)她時(shí)不時(shí)有自殺的沖動(dòng)。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我安慰她說(shuō)，別亂想，多出去走走，放松放松。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">她搖了搖頭說(shuō)，沒(méi)用的，你沒(méi)經(jīng)歷過(guò)，不知道抑郁癥的痛苦。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我張了張嘴，不知道該說(shuō)些什么。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有時(shí)候，孤獨(dú)就是“我什么都告訴你了，但你不是不信，就是不懂?！?lt;/span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">久而久之，我們就學(xué)會(huì)了自己舔舐傷口，再也不會(huì)將心里話(huà)告訴別人。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">像科爾一樣，一個(gè)人獨(dú)立面對(duì)，一個(gè)人深夜躲在被子里偷哭。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">一個(gè)人感到孤獨(dú)的原因可能有千種萬(wàn)種，但結(jié)果往往只有一個(gè)，讓人感到難受。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">所以很多人愿意花大把的時(shí)間去刷抖音，玩吃雞。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">我想，大部分都是為了逃避現(xiàn)實(shí)，逃避孤獨(dú)吧。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">但孤獨(dú)是無(wú)法逃避的，我們只能去面對(duì)。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">就像加西亞·馬爾克斯在《百年孤獨(dú)》中說(shuō)的：</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); word-wrap: break-word !important;">“生命從來(lái)不曾離開(kāi)過(guò)孤獨(dú)而獨(dú)立存在，無(wú)論是我們出生、我們成長(zhǎng)、我們相愛(ài)、還是我們成功失敗，直到最后的最后，孤獨(dú)猶如影子一樣存在于生命的一隅?！?lt;/span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我們無(wú)法躲避孤獨(dú)，只能選擇接受孤獨(dú)，改變孤獨(dú)。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">假使你可以一個(gè)人在孤獨(dú)中找到屬于自己的出路，那無(wú)疑是一件好事。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但要是你無(wú)法一個(gè)人在孤獨(dú)中行走，那不妨多花點(diǎn)時(shí)間，經(jīng)營(yíng)下朋友圈，找到一個(gè)值得珍惜的人，然后一起前行。</span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">《喜劇之王》里，柳飄飄曾指著黑漆漆的夜空對(duì)尹天仇說(shuō)：“前面漆黑一片，什么也看不到?！?lt;/h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 122, 170); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-weight: 700; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">尹天仇想了想說(shuō)：“也不是，天亮后會(huì)很美的?！?lt;/span></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;">也許人生的常態(tài)就是孤獨(dú)，但希望天亮后，孤獨(dú)的人能有人陪伴，不孤獨(dú)的人能珍惜眼前人。</h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-id="3126" data-tools="135編輯器" data-custom="rgb(117, 117, 118)" data-color="rgb(117, 117, 118)" style="max-width: 100%; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em; max-width: 100%; border-width: initial; border-style: none; border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 5px 15px; max-width: 100%; border-width: 1px; border-style: solid; border-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); color: inherit; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-width="80%" style="margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; width: 510.208px; line-height: 1.5em; border-bottom: 5px solid rgb(117, 117, 118); border-top-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); border-right-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); border-left-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); font-size: 14px; font-weight: inherit; text-align: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px; max-width: 100%; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); color: inherit; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">茲心批注：</span></section></section><section style="margin-top: 0.5em; padding: 8px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration: inherit; color: rgb(117, 117, 118); border-color: rgb(117, 117, 118); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">（1）英國(guó)著名哲學(xué)家培根曾說(shuō)：“孤獨(dú)是美，沉默是金——在生命的進(jìn)程中，你要耐得住寂寞；有人說(shuō)，凄涼是詩(shī)，悲壯是歌——在生命的現(xiàn)實(shí)中，你要經(jīng)得起挫折?！笔前?，孤獨(dú)是人生的常態(tài)，是生命的常態(tài)，永遠(yuǎn)不要逃避，唯有接受孤獨(dú)，學(xué)會(huì)和自己相處，我們才能找到自己。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; text-align: justify; word-wrap: break-word !important; min-height: 1em !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">（2）這紅塵萬(wàn)丈，誰(shuí)不孤獨(dú)！作為生命個(gè)體，孤獨(dú)與生俱來(lái)，重要的是，我們要在孤獨(dú)里成長(zhǎng)，在孤獨(dú)中豐盛自己，在孤獨(dú)中給自己增值，把孤獨(dú)當(dāng)作一場(chǎng)修行。心若安定，孤獨(dú)也是一種朝圣與加冕。</span></h3></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section>