<p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;">——摘自錢志亮《走進(jìn)兒童心理世界》</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 今天看到北京師范大學(xué)錢志亮教授的文章，很有感觸，摘選與大家分享：</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 作家龍應(yīng)臺(tái)通過(guò)講述朋友家女兒8歲時(shí)表現(xiàn)出的卓越繪畫天賦與18歲再次見(jiàn)到時(shí)抽煙、紋身、與男友同居，完全變了一個(gè)人似的巨大落差，感悟到：</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">“其實(shí)父母跟食物一樣，都是有'有效期限'的。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-family: 微軟雅黑; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font color="#333333" size="3"> </font><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">看到本該充分發(fā)揮特長(zhǎng)，收獲燦爛人生的孩子，如今卻走入彎路，龍應(yīng)臺(tái)不無(wú)遺憾地說(shuō)：</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> “我不認(rèn)為她的父母現(xiàn)在有資格去批評(píng)他們的女兒，因?yàn)橐恢币詠?lái)，她的父母只顧著自己，從沒(méi)重視過(guò)她的教育問(wèn)題。現(xiàn)在再想教育已經(jīng)不可能了，理由很簡(jiǎn)單，那就是因?yàn)楦改傅慕逃πб呀?jīng)“過(guò)期”了。而且她的父母在“有效期限”內(nèi)也沒(méi)努力過(guò)?！?lt;/span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 是啊，現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中，有些父母在孩子童年時(shí)期缺席，或是疏于管教，等孩子到了青春期，各種問(wèn)題都凸顯出來(lái)了，才開(kāi)始疑惑：“好好的孩子，怎么變成這樣了？”</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">其實(shí)不是孩子變了，是父母自己在有效期內(nèi)沒(méi)有好好把握，錯(cuò)過(guò)了孩子的成長(zhǎng)。此前疏于的陪伴、溝通、了解，早就給今天埋下了種種隱憂。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 0-10歲，是孩子最依賴父母的十年，也是父母有效教育孩子的黃金時(shí)期。</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 當(dāng)孩子漸漸長(zhǎng)大，自我意識(shí)越來(lái)越強(qiáng)，而且同伴、老師、學(xué)校漸漸占據(jù)了孩子生命的大部分，父母的作用就越來(lái)越小了。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 這時(shí)候，父母再花多少時(shí)間、心力，也很難對(duì)孩子有實(shí)質(zhì)影響，只剩下嘆息、后悔的份兒。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 所以各位家長(zhǎng)們，一定要趁孩子還小，趁自己還在做父母的有效期限內(nèi)，好好珍惜，別在這最關(guān)鍵的幾年偷了懶。</span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">該給孩子的陪伴，一點(diǎn)都不能少</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 中國(guó)城市親子調(diào)查數(shù)據(jù)顯示：七成中國(guó)父母沒(méi)時(shí)間陪孩子，僅30.32%的父母有足夠的時(shí)間陪伴孩子，全職父母的比例不到一成；</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 73.13%的父母會(huì)因?yàn)楣ぷ髟蛉∠c孩子的約定，67.75%的孩子兒童由老人照顧，獨(dú)立照顧孩子的父母僅占三分之一；</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 而且三分之二的兒童與手機(jī)、ipad為伴，僅五分之一的父母重視與孩子的情感溝通。</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">每次一提到陪伴，很多家長(zhǎng)就煩惱：</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;">“誰(shuí)不想多陪孩子呢？還不是因?yàn)楣ぷ髅Γ俊?lt;/span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;">“不掙錢，怎么給孩子好的教育資源和成長(zhǎng)環(huán)境！”</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;">“說(shuō)得倒是輕松，誰(shuí)又能替我們想想呢？”</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 我非常非常理解那些父母的酸楚和無(wú)奈，但我仍舊要強(qiáng)調(diào)一點(diǎn)就是：</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">金錢永遠(yuǎn)代替和彌補(bǔ)不了陪伴。</strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 尤其是孩子生命的頭三年，是孩子建立安全感最關(guān)鍵的時(shí)期，父母一定要盡量把孩子帶在身邊，給他足夠的愛(ài)。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 要知道，即使給孩子再好的環(huán)境，少了陪伴，孩子的內(nèi)心只會(huì)是一座孤島。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 孩子性格孤僻、缺乏自信、親子關(guān)系疏遠(yuǎn)、冷淡、孩子叛逆、反抗······長(zhǎng)大后反映出來(lái)的種種問(wèn)題，其實(shí)原因都可以追溯到父母對(duì)孩子的有效陪伴不夠。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 吳尊曾說(shuō)，他可能是文萊陪孩子時(shí)間最多的爸爸。</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">自從有了女兒neinei，他的日常生活便重新被規(guī)劃。每天為了陪伴孩子，他將工作時(shí)間由早晨安排到上午，晚上9點(diǎn)哄孩子睡覺(jué)后，才安心工作。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 其實(shí)有效陪伴，不在時(shí)間的長(zhǎng)短，而在于你是不是用心。</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 利用周末的一點(diǎn)時(shí)間，陪孩子去公園玩玩、做做運(yùn)動(dòng)；</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 飯后半小時(shí)，和孩子共讀一本書、玩一會(huì)益智游戲；</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 哪怕只有十分鐘，平靜專注地和孩子聊聊天······</span></h3><h3><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 只要在那段和孩子在一起的時(shí)間里，你的目光、心思都放在孩子身上，那樣就是成功的、有效的陪伴，會(huì)給孩子源源不斷的能量。</span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">該教給孩子的規(guī)則、獨(dú)立、責(zé)任、習(xí)慣</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;">一定要趁早</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 有些家長(zhǎng)嫌管孩子麻煩、要學(xué)習(xí)很多科學(xué)方法、費(fèi)很多心思，長(zhǎng)大了自然就好了；</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 有些家長(zhǎng)平時(shí)沒(méi)時(shí)間陪孩子，出于補(bǔ)償心理就對(duì)孩子無(wú)限寵溺；</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 有些家長(zhǎng)認(rèn)為孩子小的時(shí)候不重要，長(zhǎng)大了再來(lái)管就行。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 小時(shí)候不舍得管，青春期不敢管，長(zhǎng)大了管不了，這就是很多家庭教育的現(xiàn)狀。</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> “三歲看大，七歲看老”，這句俗語(yǔ)是有道理的。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 孩子的行為習(xí)慣養(yǎng)成，最重要的就是童年早期，越大越難糾正，有些甚至?xí)畹俟痰匕殡S他一生。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 所以教養(yǎng)孩子，一定要趁早。</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">孩子6歲前，一定要進(jìn)行規(guī)則教育，不合理的需求，堅(jiān)定說(shuō)“不”，不當(dāng)?shù)男袨椋瑖?yán)肅制止，并說(shuō)明原因。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 隨著孩子成長(zhǎng)，要舍得放手，從生活中日常小事做起，培養(yǎng)他獨(dú)立的生活能力和思維。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 孩子犯錯(cuò)了，不幫他逃避、找理由，鼓勵(lì)孩子勇敢承擔(dān)責(zé)任，讓孩子懂得為自己的言行負(fù)責(zé)。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 孩子該養(yǎng)成的規(guī)律作息、熱愛(ài)閱讀等良好習(xí)慣，一定從小就要重視起來(lái)。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 父母的有效期，只有短短的十年，愿每一位家長(zhǎng)都不要錯(cuò)過(guò)。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 微軟雅黑; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; letter-spacing: 1.5px; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 千萬(wàn)不要奢望著等孩子大了再去努力、彌補(bǔ)，那個(gè)時(shí)候就為時(shí)已晚了。</span></h3>