<h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">學習新事物對于成年人來說，永遠不算晚</span></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">但是</span></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">培養(yǎng)孩子勤奮的習慣，關鍵在于：</span><strong style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">趁早。</strong></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">勤奮是極難培養(yǎng)、極易丟失的能力，需要時時刻刻與人類與生俱來的惰性作斗爭，不是東風壓倒西風，就是西風壓倒東風。</span><br></h3> <h3>如果任由惰性日復一天地滋長，那么在這場交鋒中，勤奮很有可能落敗。 </h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(118, 146, 60); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多“聰明而不用心”的孩子后來發(fā)現(xiàn)，努力原來是一件那么困難的事。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(118, 146, 60); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我從來都沒辦法專注做一件事很久。直到現(xiàn)在我還沒能維持努力的狀態(tài)，經(jīng)常偷懶睡懶覺。我開始由衷地敬佩那些一直努力從不放棄的人，我才懂得其實努力也是一種天賦?！?lt;/span></h3><div><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></div></li></ul> <h3>"我從來都沒辦法專注做一件事很久。直到現(xiàn)在我還沒能維持努力的狀態(tài)，經(jīng)常偷懶睡懶覺。我開始由衷地敬佩那些一直努力從不放棄的人，我才懂得其實努力也是一種天賦?！?lt;/h3><h3><br></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3>"我覺得自己只要努力就會取得成績，但是我從來就沒有努力過，因為我根本就不知道怎么努力，根本就不知道努力到底是什么東西?！?lt;/h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(118, 146, 60); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">“用心”其實包含了很多的細節(jié)、細心、耐心、堅持不懈、抵制誘惑、克服困難，需要一條一條的做好</span><br></h3> <h3>家長光說沒用，還需用自身行動去感染孩子。很多家長也從來就沒有努過力，他們也根本就不知道怎么努力。</h3> <h3>身教勝于言傳，家長需要示范。如果家長自己不努力，將形成一個惡性循環(huán)，如果我們這一代還不幡然醒悟，下一代也會如此。 </h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">作家嚴歌苓從國外回來，能夠講一口流利的英語，有人把這歸結(jié)為聰明。她卻說</span><strong style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">：“聰明是頂靠不住的東西?！?lt;/strong><br></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><br></h3><h3>在她看來，一個人最優(yōu)越的素質(zhì)是頑強和堅韌。</h3> <h3>只有頑強和堅韌才能如數(shù)報償你所付出的一切：時間，精力，辛苦而枯索的整整一段青春。</h3> <h3>往往更多的家長沒有告訴孩子，努力是怎么回事！</h3> <h3>笨鳥先飛，勤能補拙</h3><h3>小孩不懂它的意義，需要你細心的剖解</h3> <h3>世界上聰明的人很多，但是堅持努力了的人確很少</h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="text-shadow: rgb(195, 214, 155) 2px 2px 10px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">對于聰明而不努力的孩子，家長應該教他們讀懂這10句話：</span></strong></span></h3><h3><span style="text-shadow: rgb(195, 214, 155) 2px 2px 10px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></strong></span></h3> <h3>1.如果在勤奮和聰明之間選一個的話，我寧愿你傻。</h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">2.如果你不是天賦異稟，那么勤奮就是你最能依賴的能力，是我們平凡人與天才抗衡的唯一武器。</span><br></h3> <h3>3.世間任何事都可能騙人，但唯有汗水不會騙人。</h3><h3><br></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4.聰明永遠不是你的武器，努力才是你最可靠的朋友。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">5.智商決定下限，努力決定上限。</span><br></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3>6.以多數(shù)人努力程度之低，根本輪不到拼天賦</h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">7.用勤奮來掩蓋自己的聰明。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">8.大智近乎若愚。無勤勉，不聰明。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <h3>9.這世上最聰明的人是只知道努力的人。<br></h3><h3><br></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">10.三分天注定，七分靠打拼，愛拼才會贏。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <h3>往往那些“聰明”的人都去干“聰明”的事</h3> <h3>成功的都是最后一直堅持努力的人</h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">冰凍三尺，非一日之寒。孩子學習不用心不努力之果，一定有家長教育不稱職之因。</span><br></h3> <h3>你不努力為什么要求孩子努力呢</h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">該陪孩子做作業(yè)的時候，你們在麻將桌上大殺四方，抖音游戲不離手！</span><br></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 15px;">該培養(yǎng)孩子獨立學習能力的時候，你們在街上顧盼生姿</span></h3></li></ul> <h3><br></h3><h3>該關注孩子心理變化的時候，你們在酒場上吆五喝六</h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">然后，孩子開始不學習了，開始逃課了，開始厭學了。你們就突然覺得，咱家的乖寶寶怎么了？</span><br></h3> <h3>這個時候你想要改變他，容易嗎？</h3> <h3>聰明的孩子更需要家長的引導</h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">"這孩子特聰明就是學習不用心，他要是認真起來學習成績肯定好”適合那些自卑的孩子，對于那種有些傲慢的兒童，這種話絕對是一種縱容。</span><br></h3> <h3>聰明是不需要鼓勵的，而用心努力才是需要鼓勵的習慣和難能可貴的優(yōu)點</h3> <h3>對于后者，一定要教會他努力有多么重要，用心有多么重要，養(yǎng)成認真的習慣有多么重要，養(yǎng)成優(yōu)秀的習慣有多么重要。</h3> <h3>以身作則，言傳身教。嚴于律己，家長也應該做到</h3> <h3>在一個學習努力的家庭環(huán)境下，他也會自覺的努力，學習接受新事物</h3> <h3>我們要本著一顆“做夢”的心</h3> <h3>敢想，才敢做，才能為之努力奮斗</h3> <h3>狩獵我的白日夢</h3> <h3>加油↖(^ω^)↗，大朋友小朋友</h3> <h3>掛繩手作視頻，需要全集的可以私信我??</h3>