婚姻好不好，看誰(shuí)管錢(qián)就知道

夏國(guó)華

<section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">前段時(shí)間，微博上一則短視頻引起了網(wǎng)友熱議。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">視頻中，在銀行柜臺(tái)前坐著辦理業(yè)務(wù)的，清一色都是妻子，而丈夫們則都默契地守在一旁。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有網(wǎng)友在評(píng)論里歡樂(lè)地調(diào)侃：“這家庭地位，一目了然！</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">這讓人想起了綜藝《我家小兩口》中，郭碧婷也曾直白地對(duì)向佐說(shuō)，結(jié)婚以后自己要管錢(qián)。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">戀愛(ài)的時(shí)候，我們可能羞于談錢(qián)；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但在婚姻中，能不能把錢(qián)談好，是一個(gè)很重要的問(wèn)題。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不同的人，有不同的選擇。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有些人執(zhí)著地一定要管錢(qián)，因?yàn)椤板X(qián)代表了地位”；有些人云淡風(fēng)輕，只要不亂花，誰(shuí)管都無(wú)所謂；還有人則希望對(duì)方管，自己樂(lè)得清閑。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但其實(shí)，錢(qián)僅僅是一個(gè)象征，真正決定兩個(gè)人能否幸福長(zhǎng)久的，是“錢(qián)”背后的意義。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">電視劇《第二次也很美》中，安安和丈夫俞非凡曾是人人羨慕的金童玉女。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在外人眼里，安安是人生贏家，一畢業(yè)就成為了衣食無(wú)憂(yōu)的富太太。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">幾張金卡隨便刷，丈夫從不干涉她把錢(qián)花在哪里。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但她自己卻清晰地感覺(jué)到，她和丈夫的距離越來(lái)越遠(yuǎn)。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她打電話(huà)給他，他說(shuō)自己正在忙，讓她不要添亂；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她等他回來(lái)一起吃飯，他直到深夜才到家，說(shuō)自己剛參加完聚會(huì)很累；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她想組織一家三口的小活動(dòng)，他說(shuō)沒(méi)空，你帶好孩子就行；</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而當(dāng)孩子因?yàn)楹闷嫘氖軅麜r(shí)，他又責(zé)怪她沒(méi)看好孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">她管著家里的錢(qián)，卻依然感到委屈和壓抑。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她漸漸明白，錢(qián)可以讓人獲得很多東西，但愛(ài)、歸屬感和尊重，卻不可以。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多時(shí)候，看似我們?cè)谝獾氖枪苠X(qián)的權(quán)利，實(shí)際上我們想要的，是老公的態(tài)度。</span></strong></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">霍思燕曾說(shuō)，杜江從來(lái)不會(huì)在我的面前說(shuō)，我的錢(qián)你花。因?yàn)樗溃拔业腻X(qián)”這三個(gè)字就是錯(cuò)的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">一番話(huà)引得全場(chǎng)驚呼贊嘆，或許有人以為杜江是因?yàn)榕拢沤谋憩F(xiàn)說(shuō)明了一切。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在節(jié)目《勇敢的世界》中，真心大拷問(wèn)環(huán)節(jié)，女嘉賓為了節(jié)目效果，故意和杜江靠得很近，而杜江本能地后退一步，“你不用離我那么近?！?lt;/span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">女嘉賓先打預(yù)防針，“我先跟你老婆說(shuō)對(duì)不起，這只是個(gè)游戲，請(qǐng)她不要在意”。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">然后問(wèn)，“你在愛(ài)著你老婆的時(shí)候，有愛(ài)過(guò)別人嗎？”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">而杜江干脆地說(shuō)，“她不會(huì)接受的”。隨后回答地?cái)蒯斀罔F，“沒(méi)有！”</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">對(duì)妻子的尊重和摯愛(ài)，才是他對(duì)待金錢(qián)關(guān)系的最深緣由。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">錢(qián)只是婚姻中的浮木，尊重和愛(ài)才是穩(wěn)穩(wěn)的基石。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">對(duì)對(duì)方情感的渴求，對(duì)親密關(guān)系的期待，才是我們內(nèi)心真正需要的。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在電視劇《歡樂(lè)頌2》里，王柏川和樊勝美一起去買(mǎi)房。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">樊勝美興高采烈地填表，沒(méi)想到，王柏川卻在最后一刻，拒絕在房產(chǎn)證上寫(xiě)她的名字，兩人當(dāng)場(chǎng)鬧翻。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心理學(xué)研究表明，導(dǎo)致人們對(duì) “錢(qián)” 的觀點(diǎn)不同的根本原因，不是性別差異，而是對(duì)安全感的理解。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">樊勝美想要房子，其實(shí)要的是房子背后投射的安全感。</span></strong></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">正如她所說(shuō)：“房產(chǎn)證上那樊勝美三個(gè)字，它不只是一個(gè)名字，它是對(duì)我愛(ài)情的保障，是對(duì)我未來(lái)婚姻的安全感?！?lt;/span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">古人言，“手中有糧，心中不慌”，錢(qián)的確可以讓我們?cè)谝欢ǔ潭壬习残摹?lt;/span></section> <p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但婚姻之路漫長(zhǎng)復(fù)雜，單靠錢(qián)來(lái)保證的安全感，未必真的安全。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">婚姻中真正的安全感，來(lái)自于一個(gè)人的信任、包容和深沉的愛(ài)。</span></h3> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">閨蜜和老公結(jié)婚時(shí)，老公把工資卡交給她，她卻不要。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">老公就把卡的密碼換成了她的生日，放在柜子里，她可以隨時(shí)查看。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">幾年過(guò)去了，兩人從一個(gè)孩子到兩個(gè)孩子，從一套房到兩套房，日子越發(fā)紅紅火火。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">別人提醒她，男人有錢(qián)就變壞，要看好他的錢(qián)包??！</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她笑一笑說(shuō)，我從來(lái)都沒(méi)想過(guò)管他的錢(qián)，但他經(jīng)常主動(dòng)告訴我，現(xiàn)在家里的存款有多少，又發(fā)了多少獎(jiǎng)金。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">錢(qián)財(cái)只是婚姻上的一把鎖，它的背后，是真實(shí)的生活。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">男人給予的信任和愛(ài)，便是女人自信和底氣的來(lái)源。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">家里的錢(qián)誰(shuí)管，沒(méi)有標(biāo)準(zhǔn)答案，只有適合自己家庭的模式。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">朋友和老公從戀愛(ài)開(kāi)始，就堅(jiān)持AA制，各自分擔(dān)家庭開(kāi)支的一半。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">剩余的財(cái)產(chǎn)，都是各自保管。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">別人都感覺(jué)不可思議，這哪像是夫妻啊，連普通朋友都不如。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但他們知道，他們的心一直緊緊連在一起。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">一方若有什么事，另一方就是穩(wěn)穩(wěn)的依靠。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">管錢(qián)的方式，并不會(huì)阻斷他們的幸福。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但也有些人，以為錢(qián)可以代表一切，可以代替責(zé)任和擔(dān)當(dāng)。</span></strong></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎上，有位網(wǎng)友吐露心聲。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">家里管錢(qián)的是自己，但其實(shí)自己并不愿意。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因?yàn)閮蓚€(gè)人收入都不高，日子過(guò)得捉襟見(jiàn)肘。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而老公把錢(qián)交給了她，每次花的時(shí)候都會(huì)找她要。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">有時(shí)明明生活費(fèi)已經(jīng)不夠了，老公卻生氣地問(wèn)，“我不是把錢(qián)都給你了嗎？怎么會(huì)沒(méi)有錢(qián)，你怎么管的??？”</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">更讓她難以接受的是，有一次孩子生病了，她急忙帶著孩子到了醫(yī)院，然后打電話(huà)給老公。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">老公卻說(shuō)，“錢(qián)不都在你那兒?jiǎn)?？我手里又沒(méi)錢(qián)，去了也沒(méi)用??！”</span></strong></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婚姻中，負(fù)責(zé)任的態(tài)度和共同承擔(dān)風(fēng)雨的勇氣，遠(yuǎn)比錢(qián)重要得多。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">兩個(gè)人有好好經(jīng)營(yíng)一個(gè)家的愿望，并由此付諸實(shí)際行動(dòng)，才是解鎖幸?；橐龅拿艽a。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">詩(shī)人約翰·鄧恩說(shuō)，這個(gè)世界上沒(méi)有一個(gè)人可以是孤島，可以完完全全是自己。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">戀愛(ài)是分享，婚姻卻是分擔(dān)，分擔(dān)真實(shí)的生活和共同的未來(lái)。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎上有個(gè)話(huà)題，“幸福的婚姻是什么樣的？”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有個(gè)回答，讓我印象深刻：</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;">“從我記事起，我爸似乎一直很窮，連買(mǎi)根煙都需要低聲下氣跟我媽要錢(qián)。有時(shí)我媽不高興，數(shù)落他一通后，還不給錢(qián)。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但是下個(gè)月發(fā)了工資，他又如數(shù)交給了我媽。到花錢(qián)的時(shí)候，又要先賠上一籮筐好話(huà)。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我替他著急，暗暗提醒他留點(diǎn)私房錢(qián)。他總是嘿嘿一笑，然后依舊如故?！?lt;/span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">幸福的婚姻，愛(ài)大于錢(qián)；不幸的婚姻，錢(qián)大于愛(ài)。</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">錢(qián)很重要，卻從來(lái)都不是最重要的。</span></section> <h3><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">夫妻一路走來(lái)，互相扶持，互相支撐，是朋友，是親人，是搭檔，更是知己。</span><br></h3> <h3><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">無(wú)論誰(shuí)管錢(qián)，只要夫妻同心、福禍與共，一起展望共同的未來(lái)，就是婚姻最美的樣子！</span></strong><br></h3>

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