<h3>有人曾說過：</h3><h3>“我以為別人尊重我，是因?yàn)槲液軆?yōu)秀。</h3><h3>慢慢的我明白了，別人尊重我，是因?yàn)閯e人很優(yōu)秀；優(yōu)秀的人更懂得尊重別人?！?lt;/h3><h3>的確，優(yōu)秀的人，都懂得尊重別人。</h3><h3>因?yàn)樗麄兓畹猛ㄍ?，看得明白?lt;/h3><h3>他們知道，世間萬物，未必只有一種存在方式；</h3><h3>人間百態(tài)，未必只有一種判定標(biāo)準(zhǔn)。</h3><h3>其實(shí)，這世界本來就是多樣性的。</h3><h3><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">當(dāng)你看不慣的事越來越少，也就開始活得越來越好。</span></strong><br></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; list-style-type: circle; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">層次越低的人，越愛跟人抬杠。</span></strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></li></ul><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">網(wǎng)上有一個(gè)特別火的詞，叫做“杠精”。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">顧名思義，就是特別喜歡抬杠的人。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他們總是習(xí)慣性地跟人唱反調(diào)，通過抬杠獲取快感。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活中的杠精，也并不少見。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">為此，網(wǎng)友還專門總結(jié)出了杠精的四大類型和三大定律。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">四大類型分別是：</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">愛潑水專業(yè)戶、實(shí)力瘋狂打擊型、自我感覺爆棚型、沒事挑事成癮型。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而杠精的三大類型則是：</span></h3><ol class="list-paddingleft-2" style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; padding-left: 2.2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">理解力不好，戰(zhàn)斗力爆表。</span></h3></li><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">表達(dá)力不好，存在感爆表。</span></h3></li><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">對方說啥不重要，先反駁了再說。</span></h3></li></ol><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">甚至還有網(wǎng)友直接給出了方法論，如何快速識別一個(gè)杠精：</span></h3><ol class="list-paddingleft-2" style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; padding-left: 2.2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只有我一個(gè)人覺得......</span></h3></li><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我即是世界，我沒見過就是假的......</span></h3></li><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">世界即是我，我不相信就是假的......</span></h3></li></ol><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">總而言之，這些人就是喜歡事事找茬，處處抬杠，通過唱反調(diào)來刷存在感。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">微博上曾有個(gè)短視頻，叫做 “挑刺狂魔”。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在發(fā)布后的短短幾個(gè)小時(shí)內(nèi)，就引來了五十多萬的點(diǎn)贊和五萬多的轉(zhuǎn)發(fā)。</span></h3><section style="margin: 20px 8px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">視頻中有段對話是這樣的：</span></section><blockquote style="margin-top: 1em; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-top: 4px; padding-left: 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; caret-color: red; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">A：咱們前臺小姑娘今天穿的西穿挺好看??。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; caret-color: red; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">B：你是在影射別人穿西裝不好看是嗎？??</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">A：不是啊，我就是覺得女生穿西裝比較打眼啊。??</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">B：那男生穿西裝就是平庸、無聊和沒品味咯？</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">A：不是啊，我覺得男生穿西裝超帥的！</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">B：所以不穿西裝的男生就是丑唄。??</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">A：不是，你誤會我了，我就是想說，那小姑娘今天打扮得挺好看的。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">B：女生穿什么重要嗎？對女生的外表指指點(diǎn)點(diǎn)，這就是對她不尊重啊。</strong></section><section style="margin-top: 5px; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(110, 110, 110); caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">…<strong style="max-width: 100%; caret-color: red; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">…</strong></span></strong></section></blockquote><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">總之無論A說什么，都會被B挑刺??。</span></section><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">到最后，A無奈地感慨到：</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“到底要怎么說，才能讓人挑不出毛病？</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活中，總有這么一些人，不管你說什么，做什么，他們總能華麗麗地給你當(dāng)頭一棒。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">?</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那些從他們口中說出的話，就像糖衣炮彈一樣，讓人遍體鱗傷；</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就像鋒刀利刃，讓人刀刀見血。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他們總以為可以通過抬杠的方式，來顯示出自己的優(yōu)越感，可殊不知，無理取鬧的抬杠，反倒暴露了自己的層次不足。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作家李小墨說：</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“始終要在言語上勝過他人，是我見過的情商最低的行為。</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在言語上給別人留點(diǎn)余地，留個(gè)臺階。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">即使不認(rèn)同，也不能不尊重。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所謂的高情商，就是懂得好好說話。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而好好說話的前提，就是不跟人抬杠。</span></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; list-style-type: circle; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">成熟的人不是懂得更多，而是能容不同。</span></strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></li></ul><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">羅素曾說：</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“只有玫瑰和茉莉一同開放，這個(gè)世界才會有參差多態(tài)的美。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">世間百態(tài)，各有千秋。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">允許別人發(fā)出不一樣的聲音，提出不一樣的看法，才是一個(gè)人的格局所在。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">王安石和司馬光，都是北宋時(shí)期的名相。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他們一個(gè)是改革派，主張大刀闊斧的整頓；</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一個(gè)是保守派，主張沿用之前的治國方案。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">??</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">兩人政見不同，互為政敵，卻能夠做到互相尊重。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">當(dāng)司馬光被趕下宰相寶座時(shí)，其他人都避而遠(yuǎn)之。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">皇帝詢問王安石對司馬光的看法，王安石說：</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“其人品、能力、文學(xué)超絕。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">正是因?yàn)榈玫酵醢彩瘜λ抉R光極高的贊譽(yù)，讓司馬光即使失去皇帝信任，也依然能夠全身而退。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">后來，王安石上臺，大力推行改革，卻因?yàn)橛|動(dòng)當(dāng)權(quán)者利益，招到眾多官員的彈劾。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">無奈之下，皇帝只好將他罷免，重新任命司馬光為相。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">這時(shí)候，不少人見風(fēng)使舵，跳出來告王安石的黑狀。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">皇帝聽后征求司馬光意見。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">司馬光說：</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“其胸懷坦蕩，有古君子之風(fēng)。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因?yàn)樗抉R光的力保，王安石逃過一劫，免遭無妄之災(zāi)。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">皇帝聽完，對二人贊不絕口：</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“卿等皆君子也！</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就如《論語》中所說，“君子和而不同”。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">真正的君子，即使觀點(diǎn)不同，也能彼此尊重。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">臺灣作家白先勇和主持人陳文茜是好朋友。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">當(dāng)年，白先勇曾憑借《牡丹亭》一舉成名，轟動(dòng)兩岸三地。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但陳文茜對它并不感興趣。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">白先勇知道后，便很少當(dāng)著陳文茜的面談及《牡丹亭》的演出情況，更不會請她發(fā)表意見。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">兩人雖然對待《牡丹亭》的態(tài)度截然相反，但這并不妨礙他們繼續(xù)做朋友。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在一次采訪中，陳文茜深有感慨地說：</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“對此，我非常感謝。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他可以創(chuàng)新，我可以頑固，誰也不去說服誰。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">俗話說，“仁者見仁，智者見智。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">這世間萬物，本就有不同的解讀方式。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">別把自己的喜好當(dāng)做標(biāo)桿，去衡量別人。</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">畢竟，這世上誰也沒有義務(wù)，要按照你的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)行事。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">三觀不符，不必互相說服。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">當(dāng)我們用平和的心態(tài)去包容彼此的“不一致”，日子就會舒坦很多。</span></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; list-style-type: circle; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">學(xué)會換位思考，看不慣的事才能越來越少。</strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></li></ul><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看過這么一個(gè)故事。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">有一位婆婆，整日愁眉苦臉，經(jīng)常跟鄰居訴苦，說自己的兒子命苦，娶了一個(gè)懶老婆。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“我那個(gè)兒媳婦啊，好吃懶做，每天睡到日上三竿，什么家務(wù)活都不干，每天早上還要我兒子把東西拿到房里給她吃，真是太過分了。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">鄰居反問她，那你的女兒嫁得還不錯(cuò)吧？</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">這位婆婆立馬由陰轉(zhuǎn)晴，笑著說：</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“是啊，過得很幸福。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">婆家待她很好，什么活都不用干，每天睡到大中午，女婿也很照顧她，每天煮好東西送到房間給她吃呢！</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">《詩詞天地》中有云：</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一直站在自己的位置上看別人，所得出的，永遠(yuǎn)都不會是好的結(jié)論。</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">這世上，很多不滿的產(chǎn)生，都是因?yàn)闆]有推己及人地考慮別人的感受；</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多隔閡的出現(xiàn)，都是因?yàn)闆]有設(shè)身處地地設(shè)想別人的處境。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那些你看不慣的事，換個(gè)角度看，就舒坦了。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">俗話說，“橫看成嶺側(cè)成峰”。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你站在不同的角度，看到的便是完全不同的風(fēng)景。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">學(xué)會換位思考，多站在別人的立場上去看待問題，多一分體諒，多一分包容。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">畢竟，很多的事情，若是出發(fā)點(diǎn)不一樣，得出的結(jié)果也各不相同。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">唯有將心比心，彼此的心才能更近，雙方的情才會更濃。</span></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; list-style-type: circle; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 25px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">內(nèi)心通透的人，看什么都順眼。</strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></li></ul><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活中，總有那么一些人，把自己的想法當(dāng)做標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，把自己的喜好當(dāng)做規(guī)范。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只要是與他不一致的，都會被他嗤之以鼻，說三道四。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可是，這世界本就是多姿多彩的，各人有各人的處世標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，各人有各人的喜惡偏好。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">誰也沒有必要按照你的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)行事， 別用既定的認(rèn)知去框死別人，別用自己的尺子去衡量別人。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">以己度人，是最狹隘的處事之道。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大千世界，無奇不有。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你要學(xué)會包容世間萬物的不同，你要學(xué)會理解蕓蕓眾生的各異。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看誰都順眼，是一種覺悟，也是一種修行。</span></strong></span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">內(nèi)心通透的人，未必懂得更多，但是能容不同。</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">就如作家向日葵所說：</span></h3><p style="margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“看人不順眼，是自己修養(yǎng)不夠。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">把一顆心修好了，看什么都順眼。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span></h3>