圈子 <p class="ql-block" style="text-align: center;">制作：萍蹤俠影</p><p class="ql-block" style="text-align: center;">攝影：萍蹤俠影</p> <h3><span style="font-family: "Segoe UI", "Lucida Grande", Helvetica, Arial, "Microsoft YaHei", FreeSans, Arimo, "Droid Sans", "wenquanyi micro hei", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Hiragino Sans GB W3", FontAwesome, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; text-indent: 35px; white-space: normal;"><font color="#010101"><b>一些事情，當(dāng)我們年輕的時候，無法懂得。當(dāng)我們懂得的時候，已不再年輕。人生，寧可孤獨，也不違心。</b></font></span><br></h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; white-space: normal;"><b>人生如品茶，沉?xí)r坦然，浮時淡然，拿得起也放得下。</b></span><br></h3> <p style="text-align: start;"><span style="font-style: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; text-align: justify;"><b>現(xiàn)在很多人為了融入某個圈子，自己明明不想做的事，不想說的話，明明自己觀點不贊同但是還要昧著內(nèi)心真實的想法去支持，還要違心地去隨大溜！</b></span><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-style: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-weight: inherit; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><b><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">好多人看起來的投緣，只不過是逢場作戲而已，很多人并不感興趣的話題，還要隨聲去附和！</span><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-style: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px;">思想不在一個高度上的人，就別去說服了，不適合自己的群體，就不要違心地恭維了。</span></b></h3><p style="margin-top: 15px; margin-bottom: 15px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); text-align: justify; white-space: normal; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; line-height: inherit; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-weight: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; line-height: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <h3><b><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">不</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">要</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">做廉價的自己，不要討好不同頻的人，也不要去迎</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">合</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">看</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">不慣的人，更不要把太多的人，請進你的生命里。</span></b></h3> <h3><b><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, "Hiragino Sans GB", "Noto Sans", "Noto Sans CJK SC", "Microsoft YaHei", "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">做好自己，不要去琢磨如何融入到這個所謂的“圈子”，而是應(yīng)該去想怎么努力提升自我，你若盛開， 清風(fēng)自來。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-size: 14px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">這樣就挺好的。</span></b><br></h3> <h3><b>孤獨是一個人的狂歡，狂歡是一群人的孤獨！</b></h3><h3 class="ask-fresh-con answerContent" style="border: 0px; font-size: 18px; line-height: 30px; overflow: hidden; max-height: 750px; font-family: "helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, "PingFang SC", sans-serif;"><b>實實在在的做著自己，想自己所想，做自己所做，內(nèi)心卻并不空虛，這是一種本我的狂歡！</b></h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"><b>獨處是一個人的快樂，也是一場清簡的修行。</b></span><br></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><b>活著，就是要活得簡單而通透，不委屈，不將就，不討好，更不必巴結(jié)。<span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;">做人，不必合群，不必解釋，更不必討好。</span></b></h3> <h3><b>適當(dāng)?shù)莫毺?，學(xué)會與自己成為朋友，不隨波逐流，不盲目跟風(fēng)，不強行合群，坦然做真實的自己。</b></h3><h3><b><br></b></h3><h3><br></h3> <h3><b>這世上，能夠真正懂你的人太少，我們要做的就是有一個淡然灑脫的心態(tài)，生活本就不易，不必苛求別人的認同，做好自己，不要活在別人的眼里。</b></h3> <h3><b>做人無需解釋太多，生活是自己的，你想怎樣過就怎樣過，永遠都不需要向任何人解釋。</b></h3> <p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(113, 121, 108); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><b><span style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;">其實強融的圈子最好的做法就是，淡化這一段情誼。你選擇新歡，我選擇時間......<br></span></b></h3> <p style="font-size: 14px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(113, 121, 108); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><b>自己只要認清自己，明白自己，感悟自己，讀懂自己，一切都會更好。</b></h3><h3><b><br></b></h3>