<section style="max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; font-size: medium; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 15px; padding-left: 15px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 2; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 0em; padding-left: 0em; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; border-radius: 5px; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62); width: 612.75px; overflow: hidden; vertical-align: top; display: inline-block; box-shadow: rgb(189, 189, 189) 0px 0px 4px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: left; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 20px 10px; max-width: 100%; width: 582.1px; vertical-align: top; display: inline-block; box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 2px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果婚姻走到盡頭，請(qǐng)放下恩怨，盡量保護(hù)孩子。</span></strong></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.54px; text-align: right; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); font-size: 14px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> ——秋葵媽 </strong></span></h3></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">前段時(shí)間，演員潘粵明準(zhǔn)時(shí)在微博，為兒子頂頂發(fā)出了生日祝福。</span><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">祝福的內(nèi)容很簡(jiǎn)單，和往年一樣，只有兩個(gè)表情。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"></span><span style="font-size: 15px;">不少粉絲給出了祝福，但也有不少網(wǎng)友心疼潘粵明和孩子。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">網(wǎng)友們的心疼不是沒有道理，因?yàn)榕嘶浢髯詮暮推拮佣瓭嶋x婚后，每年都是通過這種方式為兒子慶生。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">關(guān)于潘粵明和董潔的婚姻關(guān)系，為何破裂，網(wǎng)上眾說紛紜。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">個(gè)中滋味，只有當(dāng)事人最清楚。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"></span><span style="font-size: 15px;">曾有人說，做父母的，就不能忍一忍，不離婚，讓孩子幸?？鞓返亻L(zhǎng)大嗎？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(61, 91, 143); max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可是，給孩子一個(gè)看似完整，實(shí)則千瘡百孔的家，真的是為了孩子好嗎？</span></strong></section> <section data-tools="新媒體排版" data-id="2752092" data-style-type="undefined" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="新媒體排版" data-id="2593137" data-style-type="undefined" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding-right: 0em; padding-left: 0em; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: left; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子需要的是愛，不是湊合</span></strong></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在很多悲情的婚姻里，聽到最多的就是 “一切為了孩子”。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">為了孩子，忍著不離婚；為了孩子，湊合著過下去。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但是，對(duì)孩子來說，家的完整，不能只靠父母形式上的在一起。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一個(gè)家庭最大的悲哀，是空有家的軀殼，卻沒有家的靈魂。</span></strong></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">知乎網(wǎng)友曾這樣分享自己的故事：</span></section><blockquote class="" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="115" data-source-title="" style="margin-top: 1em; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-top: 4px; padding-left: 10px; border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">小時(shí)候，父母天天在屋外吵架，自己在屋內(nèi)手足無措。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">她看透了父母吵吵鬧鬧，湊湊合合過幾十年，一點(diǎn)意思也沒有。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">而自己根本不想結(jié)婚，二十幾歲的人，連談戀愛的想法也沒有。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">雖然喜歡過男生，但從未想過告白，總感覺恐懼、自卑，覺得自己配不上別人。</span></section></section></section></blockquote><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">心理學(xué)家李雪曾在《當(dāng)我遇見一個(gè)人》里說道：孩子與社會(huì)的關(guān)系，就是自己和父母關(guān)系的投影。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母婚姻的好壞，會(huì)影響子女對(duì)配偶的選擇，甚至是影響子女的婚姻模式。</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">一個(gè)目睹父母整日爭(zhēng)吵不休的孩子，將來很大可能會(huì)恐懼婚姻。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">甚至?xí)眠@種不良的婚姻模式，去對(duì)待配偶。因?yàn)樗麖男〗邮艿?，就是這樣的觀念，這也是對(duì)父母關(guān)系的繼承。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">據(jù)一位民政局工作人員介紹，每年六月中旬到七月，是離婚高峰期。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">很多父母，等到孩子高考完后，立馬奔向民政局扯離婚證。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">工作人員也曾好心勸阻，但其中一位母親說：</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“為了高考，已經(jīng)隱忍兩年多了，實(shí)在是過不下去了?！?lt;/span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">也</span><span style="font-size: 15px;">許表面完整的家庭，和離異相比只少了一張書面文件。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但父母一直拖著不離婚，就能保證孩子一直心態(tài)健康、成績(jī)優(yōu)異嗎？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">香港曾發(fā)布過一份有關(guān)離婚的數(shù)據(jù)調(diào)查，采樣了7000個(gè)家庭調(diào)查研究。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">最終結(jié)果表明：</span><strong style="font-size: 15px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">單親家庭并不會(huì)造成孩子在學(xué)習(xí)、行為習(xí)慣等方面的障礙。</strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">相比起那些湊合的家庭，單親家庭的孩子反而顯得幸福的多。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我們不鼓勵(lì)離婚，但是，當(dāng)一段婚姻已經(jīng)支離破碎，夫妻貌合神離，苦苦的湊合對(duì)孩子的傷害，真的不亞于離婚。</span></section> <section data-tools="新媒體排版" data-id="2752094" data-style-type="undefined" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="新媒體排版" data-id="2593139" data-style-type="undefined" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding-right: 0em; padding-left: 0em; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: left; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">即使婚姻走到盡頭，</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding-right: 0em; padding-left: 0em; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: left; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">也別當(dāng)著孩子的面詆毀對(duì)方</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding-right: 0em; padding-left: 0em; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: left; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;">《婚姻心理學(xué)》一書里說道：在一個(gè)不和諧的家庭里，父母之間的矛盾，對(duì)孩子顯然是有害的，而平靜地離婚、體面的告別，比維持一段戰(zhàn)火連綿的婚姻要好得多。</span></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">可惜的是，很多父母都不明白這一點(diǎn)。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最近熱播的電視劇《精英律師》里，扮演靳東雙胞胎姐姐的羅綺，和前夫離婚后，不僅不讓孩子見爸爸，還一意孤行地把孩子的姓給改了。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">當(dāng)她看到前夫找新女朋友后，簡(jiǎn)直要?dú)獐偭恕?lt;/span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不僅把女兒藏起來，還不斷地在孩子面前說爸爸壞話。</span></strong></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其實(shí)，已經(jīng)離婚了，就勇敢地放下吧。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子依然是兩人的孩子，如果一味地拉開孩子和爸爸的距離，對(duì)孩子而言，反而是莫大的傷害。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">心理學(xué)上有一個(gè)名詞，叫好離婚，即理性離婚。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">與其相對(duì)立的，是非理性離婚，即離婚后當(dāng)著孩子的面，說對(duì)方壞話。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">長(zhǎng)期在孩子面前說對(duì)方的壞話，會(huì)導(dǎo)致孩子對(duì)另一半的親子關(guān)系緊張，同時(shí)也對(duì)自己缺少認(rèn)同和自信。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">夫妻離婚，本就給孩子造成一種被拋棄感的感覺。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果再阻攔某一方的探視權(quán)，更會(huì)慢慢磨滅孩子的安全感。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">事實(shí)證明，只要真心疼孩子，對(duì)他負(fù)責(zé)，給他足夠的愛，即使父母離婚了，在孩子的心里，那個(gè)家也還在。</span></section> <section data-tools="新媒體排版" data-id="2752103" data-style-type="undefined" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="新媒體排版" data-id="2593140" data-style-type="undefined" style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding-right: 0em; padding-left: 0em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: left; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">夫妻關(guān)系破裂，如何面對(duì)孩子？</span></strong></h3><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; padding-right: 0em; padding-left: 0em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: left; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;">父母離婚后，離婚這個(gè)節(jié)點(diǎn)對(duì)孩子的影響，也許不是最大的。</span></h3></section></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">要讓孩子真正接納父母離婚的過程，才是真正應(yīng)該重視的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如何把傷害降到最低，是很多父母需要思考的問題。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1.實(shí)話實(shí)說</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">當(dāng)父母決定離婚時(shí)，最好的方法，是誠(chéng)實(shí)地告訴孩子，爸爸媽媽決定分開。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">不用詳述離婚的過程，但一定要讓孩子了解，自己的未來生活是怎樣，這也是孩子的知情權(quán)。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在電視劇《我的前半生》里，羅子君向兒子平兒，坦城了自己和丈夫已經(jīng)離婚的事實(shí)，并描述了他們以后的生活。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">媽媽：“我們要六點(diǎn)半起床，然后坐公交車去學(xué)校?！?lt;/span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">兒子：“我們不能回去以前的大房子了嗎？”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">媽媽：“基本就是這樣，如果你愿意，周末也可以回去找爺爺奶奶爸爸玩。”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">兒子剛開始有點(diǎn)難以接受，但經(jīng)過媽媽一系列的安撫，他接受了現(xiàn)實(shí)，逐步適應(yīng)了沒有爸爸的生活。</span></strong></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">離婚對(duì)孩子來說，是人生重要的轉(zhuǎn)折點(diǎn)。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多問題可能他們表面不說，內(nèi)心也會(huì)充滿困擾，甚至恐懼。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">對(duì)于這些，都需要和孩子坦誠(chéng)交流，</span><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如：</span><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我以后會(huì)和誰一起生活？</span></strong><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我想爸爸/媽媽的時(shí)候，該怎么辦？</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">這些都是小問題，卻是孩子內(nèi)心不安全感的來源和表現(xiàn)。</span><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">只有教會(huì)孩子直面這些問題的時(shí)候，他們才能習(xí)得面對(duì)創(chuàng)傷的力量，并學(xué)會(huì)淡然面對(duì)一切。</span><br></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2.用實(shí)際行動(dòng)表達(dá)愛</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">猶記得天后王菲和李亞鵬離婚時(shí)，雙方都沒有吵，平靜地離婚。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">離婚宣言沒有任何詆毀，只是相互祝福。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">他倆在離婚后，也依舊經(jīng)常抽時(shí)間陪伴孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">李</span><span style="font-size: 15px;">亞鵬帶著女兒李嫣回新疆老家，帶著她參加嫣然天使基金活動(dòng)。電視里，還時(shí)有王菲帶女兒逛街的新聞。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他們的女兒李嫣，性格開朗又自信，絲毫未受父母離婚影響。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(61, 91, 143); max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母離婚后，與其粉飾太平，不如用實(shí)際行動(dòng)來關(guān)愛孩子，多多陪伴。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">讓孩子相信，不論爸媽關(guān)系如何，都不影響他們對(duì)孩子的愛。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3.鼓勵(lì)孩子表達(dá)情緒</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">父母離婚后，孩子會(huì)出現(xiàn)不同的心理壓力。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">比如，年紀(jì)小的孩子會(huì)出現(xiàn)尿床，大一點(diǎn)可能會(huì)變得壓抑或沉默寡言。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">此時(shí)，父母的鼓勵(lì)顯得尤其重要。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在電影《銀河補(bǔ)習(xí)班》中，兒子馬飛因?yàn)榘职直魂P(guān)進(jìn)監(jiān)獄、父母離婚等種種挫折，變得一蹶不振。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他在老師同學(xué)眼里幾乎一無是處，就連媽媽，也覺得他無可救藥了。 </span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">但是他的爸爸，在有限的條件里，給予了孩子最好的愛。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">爸爸堅(jiān)信孩子很聰明，不斷地鼓勵(lì)馬飛，帶他體驗(yàn)不同的生活，并讓他大膽地說出自己的想法。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">正是因?yàn)橛辛烁赣H的肯定，讓馬飛成為了一名優(yōu)秀的宇航員。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">父母的一句肯定，是孩子前行的底氣，也是他愈挫愈勇的動(dòng)力。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">和父母任何一方離別的焦慮，都會(huì)影響到孩子，但是他們可能不會(huì)表達(dá)。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因此，請(qǐng)幫助你的孩子，或者口頭，或者文字，讓他和你分享他的感受。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">4.孟非曾在《非誠(chéng)勿擾》中說道：<strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">講到單親，人們總以為缺少愛，但是可能有另一種情況，單親孩子可能得到兩個(gè)家庭的愛。</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;">所以，離婚，不是錯(cuò)；單親，也沒有大問題。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"></span><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果婚姻走到盡頭，請(qǐng)放下恩怨，盡量保護(hù)孩子。</span></section> <section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">做到不指責(zé)，不推卸責(zé)任，別讓孩子負(fù)重前行。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><strong style="max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(61, 91, 143); overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">畢竟，那血濃于水的“愛”，永遠(yuǎn)離不了！</span></strong></section>