<p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;">人生一共就是由幾個十年組成的，每個十年都有不同的經(jīng)歷、不同的心境，每個十年追求的東西都不一樣。</span><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">魚與熊掌不可兼得，在追求的過程中你總要有取舍，該取什么？該舍什么？</strong></p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">十歲時</strong></span>，應該不再計較家里給的零花錢多少，不和別人家的孩子比較穿名牌服裝。少不更事，和人家比吃穿，還情有可原，年紀到了整數(shù)就該懂事了。</p> <p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">二十歲時</strong></span>，該不再計較自己的家庭出身，不再計較父母的職業(yè)。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>十幾歲時，會和別的孩子比較家庭出身，比爹娘官大官小，恨不得都投生帝王之家、將相之門，也是人之常情。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>但如果到了“弱冠”之年，還弱不禁風，尚無自立之志，出身貧寒的還為家庭自卑，老覺得抬不起頭來；出身富豪的還處處依靠父母，在家庭蔭護下養(yǎng)尊處優(yōu)，那就會一輩子都沒出息。</p> <p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">三十歲時</strong></span>，已成家立業(yè)，為父為母，有了幾年家庭生活的經(jīng)驗。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>大丈夫該不再計較妻子的容貌，深知賢惠比美貌更重要，會過日子的媳婦比會打扮的媳婦更讓人待見；</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>老婆該不再計較老公的身高，明白能力比身高更有作用，沒有謀生能力的老公，縱然長成丈二金剛，還不如賣炊餅的武大郎。</p> <p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;">四十歲時</span></strong></span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;">，該不再計較別人的議論，誰愛說啥就說啥，自己想咋過就咋過。人言可畏，嚇嚇上世紀30年代的阮玲玉還成。</span></p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;">如今的明星，一星期聽不到他的緋聞軼事，沒人對他議論紛紛，他就急得火燒火燎的。咱們雖然沒有明星那高深道行，但不會再輕易被別人議論左右，這點本事應該有的，<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">否則也對不起“不惑”這兩個字啊。</strong></span></p> <p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">五十歲時</strong></span>，該不再計較無處不在的不平之事，不再計較別人的成功對自己的壓力，不再眼紅他人的財富。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>半百之年，曾經(jīng)滄海，閱人無數(shù)，見慣秋月春風，不再大驚小怪；歷盡是非成敗，不再憤憤不平?？葱沦F飛揚跋扈，可不動聲色；看大款揮金如土，也氣定神閑，耐住性子。</p> <p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">六十歲時</strong></span>，如果從政，該不再計較官大官小，退了休，官大官小一個樣，都是退休干部；</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>如果經(jīng)商，該不再計較利大利小，錢是掙不完的，再能花也是有限的，心態(tài)平和對自己身體有好處；</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>如果舞文弄墨，當不再計較文名大小，文壇座次。</p> <p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">七十歲時</strong></span>，人到古稀，該不再計較的東西更多，看淡的事情更廣。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>年輕時爭得你死我活的東西，現(xiàn)在只會淡然一笑。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>中年時費盡心機格外計較的東西，如今看來已無關(guān)緊要。一生多少事，“都付笑談中”。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>這個歲數(shù)的老人，要有三樣特別積極：<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; font-size: 16px; font-weight: 700;">健康的身體、和諧的家庭、良好的名聲。</strong></p> <p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>人生在世，如果計較的東西太多，名利地位，金錢美色，樣樣都不肯放手，那就會如牛重負，活得很累；反之，什么都不計較，什么都馬馬虎虎，什么都可以湊合，那也未免太對不起自己，活得沒啥意思。</p><p style='margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; border: 0px currentColor; border-image: none; text-align: left; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); text-transform: none; text-indent: 0px; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, 微軟雅黑, 宋體, simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; word-spacing: 0px; white-space: normal; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; orphans: 2; widows: 2; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;'>聰明的人，有生活智慧的人，會有所不為，只計較對自己最重要的東西，并且知道什么年齡該計較什么，不該計較什么，有取有舍，收放自如。</p>