<div> 家長應(yīng)該智慧的陪伴孩子，給孩子種下種子，讓他們有目標(biāo)，有方向，有興趣的成長！感謝趙御辰爸爸和羅金昊哲爸爸的分享，向優(yōu)秀的爸爸們學(xué)習(xí)！</div><div> 首先請看<font face="宋體"><strong>趙御辰爸爸的分享（有視頻哦）。</strong></font></div><div><font face="宋體"><strong> </strong><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><font color="#000000"><b><span style="font-family: 宋體; font-size: 15pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">從引領(lǐng)到支持和服務(wù)</span></b></font></p><font color="#000000" face="宋體" size="3"></font><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"><font face="Calibri"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></font></span></font></p><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left;"><font color="#000000"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 14pt;"><font face="Calibri"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></font></span><span style="font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">接到班主任朱老師的推薦和安排，內(nèi)心的感覺是“惶恐”。感謝朱老師和大家的信任，利用此次班會機(jī)會和大家分享下我們家庭教育理念和家庭教育小故事，<span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>權(quán)當(dāng)拋轉(zhuǎn)引玉。</span></span></font></p><font color="#000000"><span style="font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left;"> 第一、<font size="3"> 志不立，<span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>天下無可成之事。志向就好比大海航行中的燈塔，有明燈的指引，才不會迷失方向，才會持續(xù)擁有學(xué)習(xí)和成長的動力。在小孩的學(xué)習(xí)成長過程中，個人認(rèn)為不斷思考與確認(rèn)人生目標(biāo)或立志尤為重要。還在讀小學(xué)低年級時，個人會不斷和小孩探討學(xué)習(xí)的意義或未來的職業(yè)選擇，如：學(xué)好英語以后出去旅游可以充當(dāng)爸媽的導(dǎo)游；職業(yè)無所謂貴賤，送快遞、擺地攤等職業(yè)都可以，只要是憑自己的勞動所得的合法職業(yè)都是值得人尊敬的，但努力學(xué)習(xí)會讓自己的人生擁有更多選擇。不是人人都可以改變世界，但我們至少可以改變自己，通過改變自己就可能改變家庭，改變社區(qū)，甚至是改變城市、國家乃至世界。</span></font></p><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left;"><font size="3"><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'> 第二、樹立<span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>付出要多于得到的價值觀。在小孩進(jìn)入初中寄宿生活后，通過其寢室同學(xué)借其一瓶水后還一瓶牛奶的事情，及時告訴小孩，和同學(xué)及他人打交道要有付出多于得到的價值觀，不要有占便宜的心態(tài)。事情雖小，個人認(rèn)為一旦該觀念植入小孩內(nèi)心，寄希望讓小孩逐漸明白奉獻(xiàn)應(yīng)大于收獲、努力應(yīng)大于回報、投之以木瓜報之以瓊瑤等做人的準(zhǔn)則和基本價值觀。</span></span></font></p><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left;"> 第三、做自己，<span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>自己的事情自己做，自己選擇并承擔(dān)對應(yīng)責(zé)任。從</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>2</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>個故事說起：四歲讓小孩自己洗澡（限時</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>20</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>分鐘），每月固定生活費讓小孩自己作主并支配（不能買糖和飲料）等。在放手讓小孩自己去做自己的事情和選擇時，不但減少了小孩和大人的矛盾和沖突，也給予了小孩應(yīng)有的成長機(jī)會，提升了小孩的動手能力、選擇能力和承擔(dān)責(zé)任的能力。</span></p><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'> 第四、成<span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>長（過程）大于結(jié)果。只要不斷努力，今天的自己就能不斷超越昨天的自己。關(guān)注小孩的成長過程，不斷鼓勵其取得的每一點進(jìn)步，如：跳繩從</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>50-100-160-190</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>、</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>1000</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>米跑從</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>5</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>分</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>20</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>秒</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>-4</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>分</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>50</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>秒</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>-4</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>分</span><span lang="EN-US" style='font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>10</span><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;'>秒，在小孩每取得一點進(jìn)步的時候，就和其說明最新的成績和其不斷的努力和付出有關(guān)，大部分的事情只要持續(xù)不斷的努力和奮斗，總會能帶來更好的成績或成果，從而成為更好的自己。</span></span></p><p align="center" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style='font-family: 宋體; font-size: 14pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; 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在他“叛逆“之前，我再回憶我為什么會“叛逆”？其實就是思想的不同，我們應(yīng)該包容他的思想，就只剩青春，沒有叛逆了。</p><p> 三觀和成績，我更看重三觀正。</p><p> 孩子和我們在一起的時間將越來越少，現(xiàn)在是一周見次面，讀高中了，一月見一次，讀大學(xué)了，一學(xué)期見一次（可能還不一定）。所以應(yīng)該好好珍惜這漫長又短暫的時光。</p><p> 父子不但是父子，也應(yīng)該是伙伴。</p><p> 當(dāng)我老了，走不動了，最幸福的事是我對你說："很幸運能夠當(dāng)你的爸爸?！?你也能回復(fù)我：“很幸運能當(dāng)你的兒子”。</p></h3> <h3 style="text-align: center;">羅金昊哲爸爸視頻一</h3> <h3 style="text-align: center;">羅金昊哲爸爸視頻二</h3> <h3 style="text-align: center;">羅金昊哲爸爸視頻三</h3> <h3 style="text-align: center;">羅金昊哲爸爸視頻四</h3><h3 style="text-align: left;"> 父母學(xué)會智慧陪伴孩子，真誠與孩子溝通，尊重孩子的個性，包容孩子的思想，用愛心，耐心等待孩子的長大吧。信每個孩子都會不負(fù)青春，不負(fù)韶華！</h3>