<p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 1 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>借米不借柴，借衣不借鞋。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">借米是救濟(jì)人，是為自己積福，所以一般人都不會(huì)拒絕。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">但是柴遍地都是，只要自己肯努力，都能去打柴。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">古人救窮，但是不救懶。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">不借鞋，是因?yàn)槊總€(gè)人的尺碼都不一樣，很難找到合腳的。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">加上鞋子要走路，給人弄臟弄破了也不好還。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 2 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>不做中人不做保，一生一世無(wú)煩惱。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">不做中間人，不給別人做擔(dān)保，一生不會(huì)有煩惱纏身。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">做中間人，一定是兩邊都認(rèn)識(shí)，都是朋友。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">不出事還好，出了事情兩面不討好，都會(huì)怪罪在你身上。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">到頭來(lái)事情砸了，朋友也沒(méi)了。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 3 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>菜里蟲，菜里死。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">盜墓的一般死在墓穴里，水盜一般死在水里。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">在哪里辦壞事一般就會(huì)在哪里送命。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 4 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>柴米夫妻，酒肉朋友，盒兒親戚。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">夫妻之間是柴米油鹽，朋友之間是吃吃喝喝，親戚之間離不開禮品點(diǎn)心。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">最親密的關(guān)系，往往更加樸實(shí)、真實(shí)。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 5 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>成人不自在，自在不成人。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">那些想有作為的人，一般都不自在，不能由著自己的性子來(lái)。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">天天自在逍遙，一般成不了什么事兒。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">想要成大事，就得忍常人不能忍。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 6 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>吃蔥吃蒜不吃姜。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">姜和“將”諧音。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">是說(shuō)不能吃別人的激將法。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">一上頭，就容易出禍?zhǔn)隆?lt;/h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 7 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>吃人家的飯，看人家的臉；</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>端人家的碗，受人家的管。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">在生活上依靠別人，那就得服從別人的約束。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">經(jīng)濟(jì)大權(quán)決定話語(yǔ)權(quán)。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">想要不被人管，就得自力更生。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">年輕人不聽父母的話，但是在經(jīng)濟(jì)上卻依賴父母。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">這就不厚道了。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 8 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>慈不掌兵，義不掌財(cái)。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">仁慈心軟的人不能帶領(lǐng)軍隊(duì)，義氣為先的人不能掌管財(cái)權(quán)。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">戰(zhàn)場(chǎng)生死攸關(guān)，關(guān)鍵時(shí)刻不能婦人之仁，否則只能滿盤皆輸，輸?shù)舾嗳说男悦?lt;/h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">所以將帥必須要狠得下心。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">世上忠義之士多好友，他們重友而輕財(cái)，所謂仗義疏財(cái)，所以義者不能守財(cái)，也守不住。因?yàn)樗麄兏静辉诤踟?cái)。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 9 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>打人不打臉，罵人不揭短。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">和別人發(fā)生矛盾，不要戳別人痛處。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">一時(shí)痛快，遺害無(wú)窮，控制情緒，才能和氣生財(cái)。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 10 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>大富由命，小富由勤。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">一個(gè)人能不能大富大貴，是上天注定的。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">一個(gè)人能否小康，是靠個(gè)人努力得來(lái)的。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">命里有時(shí)終須有，命里無(wú)時(shí)莫強(qiáng)求。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">踏踏實(shí)實(shí)，清清白白，做好自己的事就夠了。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 11 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>寧拆十座廟，不毀一門親。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">拆散別人的婚姻是很糟糕的事情，比得罪神明還要惡劣。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">廟拆了還能蓋，神明也會(huì)寬恕眾人，但是毀了一家的婚，就毀了三代的幸福。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">父母?jìng)?，夫妻離散，子女被牽連，這其中的過(guò)失無(wú)法彌補(bǔ)。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 12 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>貧居鬧市無(wú)人問(wèn)，富在深山有遠(yuǎn)親。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">人要是窮了，在鬧市也沒(méi)人上門。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">人要是富了，住在深山里也有人巴結(jié)奉承。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">世態(tài)炎涼，自古如此。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 13 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>親兄弟，明算賬。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">親人之間，最不能欠的就是經(jīng)濟(jì)債。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">親如兄弟，也要把賬擺在明面上。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">只有把賬目算明白了，才能有助于緩解家庭經(jīng)濟(jì)糾紛、緩解成員關(guān)系、促進(jìn)長(zhǎng)期合作。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>- 14 -</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>兒孫自有兒孫福，莫與兒孫做馬牛。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">有很多的家長(zhǎng)拼命工作，為孩子攢家底。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">擔(dān)心孩子不會(huì)做飯，沒(méi)有好工作，沒(méi)有好對(duì)象。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">其實(shí)，后代子孫有自己的福氣，他們需要對(duì)自己的生活負(fù)責(zé)。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">做長(zhǎng)輩的不用給他們當(dāng)牛做馬，過(guò)度操勞。</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>你若喜歡，<strong>別忘了點(diǎn)個(gè)</strong></strong><strong><strong>在</strong>看</strong><strong>哦 ~</strong></h3></br><h3>END</h3></br>