<h1><b><font color="#010101"> Women in the awkward age,you can not be beautiful, but to be a delicate woman. Yang Jiang said in << 100 year old speech> >, "a person after different degrees of exercise ,varying degrees of self-cultivation, different levels of benefits. Like spices,incompletely broken surviors, survivors of fine grinding, smell the strong". You can scrub in the gap between liuniansishu,self deprecating"speechless" distress.That one, all together with the filth of the body will form a line like a water lotus. 女人處于尷尬的年齡，你可以不漂亮，但要做一個(gè)精致的女人。楊絳在《百歲感言》中說過，“一個(gè)人經(jīng)過不同程度的鍛煉，就獲得不同程度的修養(yǎng)、不同程度的效益。好比香料，搗得愈碎，磨得愈細(xì)，香得愈濃烈”。你能在流年似水的縫隙間磨砂，也能自嘲“無語”的窘迫。所有加之于身的污穢，都會形成一株宛如出水的“芙蓉”。</font></b></h1> <h1><b><font color="#010101">There isn't any doubt that no one will find you the excellent intrinsic by your untidy appearance. Yang Jiang said ,"the name of a person is a brand; the image of a person is a business card." Dressing is respectful for others, but also reflects a person's inner. Just like selling cosmetics, people will judge the packages according to the appearance , and further to understand the products, and finally decided to buy or not . That each age has different dress can reflect a person's appearance :beautiful, dignified, generous, decent.It also reflects the image of a woman.<br></font></b><b><font color="#010101">沒有人會通過你邋遢的外表發(fā)現(xiàn)你優(yōu)秀的內(nèi)在。楊瀾說過，“ 一個(gè)人的名字，是一個(gè)品牌；一個(gè)人的形象，是一張名片?！币轮皿w是對別人的尊重，也是體現(xiàn)一個(gè)人的內(nèi)在。就好像推銷化妝品一樣，人們會根據(jù)外表包裝來判斷，而進(jìn)一步去了解它的產(chǎn)品，最后才決定買與不買。每個(gè)人的年齡段都有不同的穿著打扮，都可體現(xiàn)一個(gè)人的外表的美觀、端莊、大方、得體等，同時(shí)折射出一個(gè)人的形象。</font></b></h1> <h1><b><font color="#010101">Reading others is about ourselves. It can make us pay more attention to the details in life. Everyone is like a book, which can has the readability, invisibility, plasticity and forward-looking.It contacts the inner and the outer,however they don't have to be read well, but to be patient for the process of understanding the experience needed. Because each process can let us extract our own "patience"invisibly . Life without the elements of "patience",is impossible to attain the cultivation of the precipitation.The detail is in want of the patience.Details of the other people's life is often own positive material with negative material, from which we can learn more.<br></font></b><b><font color="#010101">閱人閱己，能讓自身注意到生活中的細(xì)節(jié)。每個(gè)人都好像一本書，都有可讀性、隱形性、可塑性和可瞻性，也許是內(nèi)在的，也許是外在的，而這些都無需去讀懂他，需要的是耐心地體悟“經(jīng)歷”這一過程，因?yàn)槊總€(gè)過程都是能讓我們在無形之中提煉自己的“耐心”修煉的過程。生活中如果缺少了“耐心”的元素，那何來修養(yǎng)的沉淀？耐心是細(xì)節(jié)的前提。別人的生活細(xì)節(jié)往往是自己的正面素材與反面素材，都可以引以為鑒。</font></b></h1> <h1><b><font color="#010101">The women at the age of forty has experencd the loss of the physical strengh and the hone of experence without having not been the permission of the mature.so among any three people walking, I will find something to learn for sure. Their good qualities are to be followed, and their shortcomings are to be avoided.we should look for that friend who can influence on our life in spirit.It is the person that may be a parner,best friend, wife and even an opponent, etc.But it is the best way to make a friend of an opponent so that we can be forced to be mature.Because he can incultivate your mind.When a famous scientist who won the Nobel Prize stepped down to accept the award quietly,he pre-sented the flowers to his own opponent.But he is also a great scientist.While we make progress and success,remember to hold the opponent's hands tightly and say "Thanks"to him.There's no need to attach that flowers and applauses in success,but for frustrated applauses.<br></font></b><b><font color="#010101">女人上了不惑之年，已經(jīng)體能的耗損，經(jīng)歷的磨練，已經(jīng)不允許你不成熟，所以要折其善者而從之，其不善者而改之。人的一生中，如能尋覓一個(gè)“精神”上富有的朋友足矣。他可以合作伙伴、知己、愛人，甚至是對手等，但人生里也要交一個(gè)能使你成長的朋友———對手！因?yàn)樗梢阅ゾ毮愕男闹恰?記得有位著名的科學(xué)家獲得諾貝爾獎的那一刻默默走下領(lǐng)獎臺，將鮮花獻(xiàn)給了自己的對手，他同樣是一位偉大的科學(xué)家。在我們獲得進(jìn)步和成功的時(shí)候，別忘了緊握住對手的手，真誠地說一聲：“感謝你，對手！”成功無需太多的鮮花和熱烈地掌聲，需要的是我們受挫折后成長的掌聲。</font></b></h1> <h1><b><font color="#010101">Everyone has a big tree like that oneself —Reading books.The ancients said that reading has three steps of realms.Firstly,last night the west wind withered the trees,watching the endless road.Secondly,for pining away from it ,I didn't feel any regretful.Thirdly,drunk in search of thousands of times, in the dim light where the people is .The ancients are noted for the meticulous scholarship,from the perplexity to the perseveramce and the returning nature.However what we read about is to have a good taste of three kinds of stats"perplexity—insight —comprehendsion",which can be an unknown own oneself,an excellent person.It seems that we chat with a moral person when we read a good book.Reading good books can make us have a broad mind,keep reasonable .So we choose good books to read with the accompany of books.French thinker Pascal had a famous saying:"Man is but a reed,the feeblest in natue,but he is a reed that thinks.” In other words,body or spirit must be on the way.The book is a spirit of yoga,which takes us on the way to climbing，dissolving the frozen snow and trickleting; letting it become a sea,but not a cup. The fragrance always stays the hand that gives jasmine. 每個(gè)人身邊都有一棵這樣的大樹，那就是讀書。古人云，讀書有三境。第一境，昨夜西風(fēng)凋碧樹，望盡天涯路。第二境，為伊消得人憔悴，衣帶漸寬終不悔。第三境，醉里尋它千百度，驀然回首，那人在燈火闌珊處。古人強(qiáng)調(diào)的是治學(xué)方面，從迷惘到執(zhí)著到返樸歸真。然而我們讀書的三境卻是為了能站在金字塔上讀自己人生的三界，即“迷惘——頓悟——領(lǐng)悟”，形成一個(gè)未知的另外的一個(gè)美麗自己。讀一本好書就猶如跟一個(gè)品德高尚的人交談，使人心胸闊達(dá)，明事理，所以要擇其善書而讀，與書為伴。端帕斯卡爾說，人是會思想的蘆葦。套用一句話說，“身體和靈魂永遠(yuǎn)有一個(gè)在路上”。書籍則是一場精神的瑜伽，帶我們走在攀登的路上，讓我們在不惑之年化解“冰封之雪”，使之涓涓細(xì)流，成為一片海，而不是一個(gè)杯子，給人予茉莉，留人予余香。</font></b></h1> <h1><b><font color="#010101">Being a delicated woman is to distill oneself, promote oneself and self-improve;to be sedate ,prudent,self-respect.That is the woman's dignity<br></font></b><b><font color="#010101">做一個(gè)精致的女人，是在提煉自己，提升自己，完善自己的成熟、穩(wěn)重、自尊和自重。那是女人的尊嚴(yán)！</font></b></h1>