<p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 好友Sonia在臉書上分享了一篇題為《The Soul Journey with Sarah Moussa》的文章并表達(dá)了她的一些感悟。引起不少朋友的關(guān)注和討論。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 因自己曾歷經(jīng)失去摯愛的悲慟并最終挺過；也嘗試過以極相似的觀點(diǎn)去安慰并開解他人；但限于認(rèn)知水平，所想所說都遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)不及此文導(dǎo)釋的那樣通達(dá)透徹。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 如果十年前我能見到這樣的好文，相信我的療愈過程會(huì)縮短很多。所以讀完文章的第一反應(yīng)就是：把它譯出來，給更多人看！</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 希望曾經(jīng)歷至今還沒釋懷、以及正在經(jīng)歷失去親人（至愛）之痛的人們的身心創(chuàng)傷能夠愈合的更快！希望她（他）們不再把持哀念，能真正地放下遺憾、歉疚甚至是自責(zé)。更用力用心去愛去生活。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 讓一個(gè)活的更豁達(dá)更快樂更精彩的你，去榮耀愛你和你愛的人，這才是他（她）們想要看到的！</span></p><p class="ql-block"><i style="font-size:20px;"> 而且我相信上帝對(duì)每個(gè)人的安排都是最好的。無論我們是否理解，能看到還是看不到。</i></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 要說明的是，翻譯時(shí)力圖忠實(shí)原文。但為了讓大家可以比較輕松地“閱過”這樣的“靈魂之旅”，擅自改了下文體，押了些韻。“死亡”在很多人眼里可能是“失意”的，但在我看來，生死是完全平等的。談?wù)撍劳鲆部梢詭е霸?shī)意”。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 同時(shí)非常贊賞Sonia說的希望她死后，她的兒孫及家人朋友們可以常開心地提到她、回憶和她在一起的美好時(shí)光，或有趣的或犯傻的或是瘋狂的事兒！我也期望以后被這樣對(duì)待。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 英語原文附在后面了，可直接查看。插圖也是原文里帶的，就一起貼上。</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 因自己英語水平差，想把文章分享出來的心情又十分迫切。譯文中難免有錯(cuò)誤或不當(dāng)。真誠(chéng)歡迎大家糾錯(cuò)指正，幫我改進(jìn)。在此先表衷心謝意??????</span></p> <p class="ql-block"><span style="color:rgb(25, 25, 25); font-size:20px;"> </span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; color:rgb(128, 128, 128);">翻譯：北美大村姑.閑石 </span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; color:rgb(128, 128, 128);">時(shí)間： 2023年5月26日</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 與莎拉.穆莎一起來一場(chǎng)靈魂之旅</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;"> 請(qǐng)不要和死者一起長(zhǎng)眠</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">你是否知道</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">你為死者哭泣時(shí)</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">哭的不是他（她）們</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">而是你自己的不堪</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">你哭是因?yàn)槟阌X得</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">自己“失去了親人”</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">他（她）們不再與你相伴</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">你認(rèn)為所有的（那些美好）</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">都隨親人們的死而消散</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">而親人們</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">再也不在這邊</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">那么</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">如果你去“長(zhǎng)眠”</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">他（她）們?cè)谀倪?lt;/span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">的確</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">親人是已經(jīng)走了</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">或者說現(xiàn)住在其他地點(diǎn)</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">他（她）們那里比我們這好嗎</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">當(dāng)然</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px; color:rgb(25, 25, 25);">那里絕對(duì)好過這邊</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">那你為什么</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">還要為親人的離開而悲憐</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">當(dāng)你（心里）接受</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">親人不是“不在這邊”</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">而仍在另一個(gè)更好的地方</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">那里不再有疾病和苦難</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">如此你就會(huì)停止哀念</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">讓逝去的親人在你記憶里回返</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">并享受你擁有過的一切快樂</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">持續(xù)把你陪伴</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">如果你真的愛他（她）們</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">那就再愛一次吧</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">這次</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">要愛得更強(qiáng)</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">更純更多饋還</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">如今</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">不能再有任何形式的責(zé)欠</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">只有愛</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">存在于你我他之間</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">我尊重你的痛你的難</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">以及</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">你對(duì)它表達(dá)方式的選揀</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">我知道你在哭喊</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">也明白</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">你哭的會(huì)沒有撫安</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">不過</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">今天我要對(duì)你說</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="color:rgb(25, 25, 25); font-size:20px;">請(qǐng)不要和死者一起長(zhǎng)眠</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">記住</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">我們只看到了硬幣的一個(gè)面（死亡）</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">親人所在處的美妙和光亮</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">我們看不到</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">也沒有“另眼”去看</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">何不開始</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">視“死亡”為第二個(gè)生誕</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">這是我們所有人都要過的一關(guān)</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">請(qǐng)不要和死者一起長(zhǎng)眠</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">去榮耀他（她）們吧</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">用親人們所希望看到的</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">你的人生詩(shī)篇</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">讓逝者超凡</p><p class="ql-block">而你</p><p class="ql-block">要繼續(xù)（好好地）<b style="font-size:22px;">活 </b>在人間</p> <p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">?</span></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:20px;">?The Soul Journey with Sarah Moussa</span></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">DON'T DIE WITH YOUR DEAD.</p><p class="ql-block">Did you know that when you cry for your dead, </p><p class="ql-block">you cry for you and not them?</p><p class="ql-block">You cry because you “l(fā)ost them”, because you </p><p class="ql-block">don’t HAVE THEM by your side. You think it all </p><p class="ql-block">ends in death. And you think they are NOT there any more.</p><p class="ql-block">So if you’re dead no more, where are they?</p><p class="ql-block">Yes they have left, or they are now somewhere else, is that place better than this?</p><p class="ql-block">Yes, definitely that place is better than this; so Why do you suffer for their departure?</p><p class="ql-block">When you have finished accepting that they are no longer "NOT here", but they are still in another place even better than this, for they’re where they are no longer sick, or suffering.</p><p class="ql-block">Then you'll stop mourning them and you'll get them back in memory so they keep accompanying you </p><p class="ql-block">with the joy of all that you've lived.</p><p class="ql-block">If you truly loved them LOVE them AGAIN and this time with greater strength, with greater purity, with greater delivery.</p><p class="ql-block">Today, there will be no more reproach of any kind.</p><p class="ql-block">Only LOVE, will be the essence between you, between us, between them.</p><p class="ql-block">I respect your pain, and the way you express it.</p><p class="ql-block"> I know you cry and you will cry without comfort.</p><p class="ql-block">But .. Today I say to you:</p><p class="ql-block">Don't die with your dead.</p><p class="ql-block">Remember we are only seeing one side of the </p><p class="ql-block">coin (death).</p><p class="ql-block">We are not looking the other way; we are not seeing the wonderful place of light where they stand.</p><p class="ql-block">What if we start seeing “death” as a Second Birth?</p><p class="ql-block">Second Birth we ALL will go through.</p><p class="ql-block">Don't die with your dead, honor them by living </p><p class="ql-block">your life as they would have wanted you to.</p><p class="ql-block">Let them transcend.</p><p class="ql-block">And you keep living.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">~Andrew Mclaren</p><p class="ql-block">Artist: Unknown</p>