<h3>我親愛的媽媽朱琪昌在2020年5月3日6:15在晚餐時安靜的走了. 享年97歲.</h3> <h3>去年9月6日我如往常從休斯頓去延長油田做項目中期匯報后返美，臨行前我抱抱你，你拉著我的手依依不捨。我說媽媽，你好好的. 四月我再來看你. 誰知那,就是永別.... 我悲痛萬分、恍如隔世！媽媽，從今后，你在天上看著我們每個人吧，我仍 會呼喚你，與你輕談，直到永遠！</h3> <h3><br>媽媽，你一向是我們全家人的完美女神和最親的朋友. 你常說，世界這么大，為什么偏偏我遇見你，遇見他？這是緣份. 你的話像雨露無時無地不在滋潤我們接觸世界的視角.<br></h3> <h3>你對你父母姐妹兄弟關愛倍至，被愛稱為“大姐”、”琪孃孃”，...你對孩孫鼓勵加言傳身教，多少孩子忘不了你“小弟”“小妹“的妮稱、把你做為慈母？你與爸爸72載相濡以沫攜手并進，你對事業(yè)執(zhí)著酷愛. 爸爸成功的每一步都有你的身影，我們取得的每一個成績都是你言傳身教的結果. 我們陪養(yǎng)子孫的原則無不來自你榜樣的力量. 你說過要寬容，甚至對不起你的人（如文革），也有他們的難處. 你教我們凡事要心平靜氣以理服人. 不光成就了我們每一個人，你身先士卒了女子要自力自強的信念. 你被朋友譽為中國的撒切爾夫人，你管自己叫“永遠有辦法的人”. 媽媽近年病了. 但你對照顧你的護工，時兒妙趣橫生. 讓她們高高興興每一天.媽媽的神奇太多了，一點一滴滋潤了我的成長！</h3> <h3>【媽媽的美麗】小時侯我們住在北京7號樓，最神祕的地方是你的衣櫥。那裏盛滿了你的美麗，一只口紅，一條連衣裙的腰帶都是我流連往返的地方，每周從幼兒園囘來都破不急待的學一個你的美發(fā)款式。有一次我們去北京機場接爸爸，碰到劉少奇，康克清等領導人歡迎印尼縂統(tǒng)吳奈溫，李延和我跳了一只“我有一頂小草帽”的舞后，被稱為“標準中國家庭“…1980年你第一次隨團赴美，你帶了八只箱子伴著你純美式的英語，優(yōu)雅知性,，一路風采。</h3> <h3>【媽媽的passion】媽媽先英文講師，后隨了爸爸的石油事業(yè)，你做一行愛一行，一絲不茍，認真有加，成為年年的先進工作者。你好像縂是在加班，爸爸常出差，你呢白天工作，晚上讀石油夜大，記得我常是那個睡在媽媽實驗室里的孩子。儅我拿到殼牌石油公司總裁獎的時后，我知道我的身后是我的媽媽。<br></h3> <h3>【媽媽的果斷從容】文革，我們一夜成了狗仔子。有一天我去工作區(qū)外熱水站打開水。你看到了我和我身上的破軍衣，便毫不猶豫的找到造反派要求放你回家。那時你被関了8個月。湖北五七干校摘棉花，住老鄉(xiāng)家，靠松花蛋，南瓜，高梁米飯，渡過時艱。 平反了，你和爸爸奔赴大港，任丘，北京勘探開發(fā)研究院，重囘技術崗位，你和爸爸是那末開心，全力以赴，奉獻能源。一個小小的56樓16平方米成了你們慶?？茖W春天，會聚中外友人的殿堂。</h3> <h3>【媽媽的遠見】為了讓我們趕上高等教育讀研讀博這班車，你赴美考查美國能源部，囘京后把我們叫到爸爸辦公室，給我們設計留學深造。你送走了李延，又送我和大姐赴美留學。</h3> <h3>如今要送我女兒離開休斯頓，去加州伯克利大學讀書，我這才理解你。你那年送走的是與兒女的朝朝暮暮，你無私的期盼著我們的成長與成功。</h3> <h3>【媽媽的執(zhí)著】媽媽的執(zhí)著是有名的。對我影響最大的是2001年十一國慶節(jié)僅三天假，媽媽往返中美，就為了給我送一席中藥。2002年，我生孟麒，媽媽摯意一夜等在Texas Woman Hospital的沙發(fā)上。媽媽教會我母愛是無條件的奉獻。<br></h3> <h3>媽媽留給我們慈悲的心、高貴完美的氣質、執(zhí)著向前的勇敢！你是我們的天和地. 我有幸做你的孩子！愿你一路走好！</h3> <h3>James 致姥姥一路走好：My name is James Wang and my grandmother Zhu Qi Chang raised me in Beijing until I was 6 year oldI watched the birth of my first child on May 1st and learned my grandma passed away the morning of May 3rd US timeI was hoping to video chat and show her our new baby the evening of May 3rdI initially had a lot of regret about this bad timing, but realized her spirit is still here with us, and always will beMany great words have been shared about my grandmother’s kind heart, beauty, empathy, and all of her accomplishmentsI think most important is her higher level pursuit of the truth in this world, including staying true to herself and pursuing her original heart regardless of circumstance, Which has shaped her spirit and soulThey say good things happen to good people but this is not often the case in a broken world that changes peopleMany people only care about money, pride, or status when choosing marriage or friends or business partnerOur younger generation living in this modern world are often superficial and some of us forget about the basic of being a good human beingPeople can choose however they want to live their lives, but the good thing is those who pursue the truth and treat all people with an open mind, will have real peace and happiness within themselvesAnd like my grandmother when looking back her life. There will be no regret, but most importantly, her spirits will be inheritedAnd the good that she has shared with this worldTogether with her soul will resound throughout all of creationWhen having a new child, we start new life for the child, but we also for ourselves and this time we can live the way we chooseWe learn things together with the child that we want them to learnSome things as small as watching some cartoons and some as big as figuring out our liveWe choose to teach our children the values we think are rightAnd by doing that the right value get further reinforced within ourselvesAnd finally our right spirit gets inherited by our childrenEven when we are no longer a part of this earthThat is why people should be true to themselves before having kids, otherwise future generation lives will sufferMy grandma instilled in this family a moral ethic and pursuit of the truth that guides us on how to live in this worldAnd the result is that nobody in this family is arrogant and everyone continues to work hard to try and make impactShe has always been true to herself and her spirit will continue in not only descendants but also in every truth that exists within this universeShe will be in the skyShe will be in the starsShe will be in the leaves of the treesShe will be in the flapping wings of a passing butterflyShe will be in the eyes of a dove walking byShe will be in the light of a half lit moonShe will be in touch of a slight breeze of windHer spirit and soul will be with us, For all of eternity</h3> <p class="ql-block">孟麒緬懷姥姥</p><p class="ql-block">Dear Grandma,I want to send you my prayers through my writing and my playing of the piece Prayer on your beloved piano. Please Listen. To my dearest and most respected Grandmother, Although my memories of you are scarce, my emotions are overflowing.I will never forget the time we spent together,With the burning summer rays,And the scent of Beijing penetrating the room. I don’t remember much,But there is no one that does not sing praises of you.And from those acclaims, I’d like to thank you.Thank you for being the muse to your family.You left behind your unbound energy with my mom)Yu li), your serenity with my first aunty（Yu chen li), generosity with my second aunt (Yan li), and your eloquence with my uncle (Su li). Thank you for your love in music,your belief in humanity,your diligence,And much more. Grandma,Rest peacefully, and assured of the household you’ve built.Now you dwell inside our words, actions, and dreams,As close to us as we are to ourselves. </p><p class="ql-block">我最親愛的姥姥，你能聼到我嗎？我想一邊為你彈奏你最愛的鋼琴曲《祈禱》，一邊與你輕談。雖然，我在美國出生，對你的記億有限。但我取了你的名字 Meng Chee。我對你的感情溢滿心扉。我無法忘懷我和你在一起的時光，北京炎熱的夏天裏, 我迫不急待的飛向北京，飛向你！我雖不記的很多，但全世界都在歐歌你！你被世人所愛，我想對你說，謝謝你！ 謝謝你像一把燃燒的火炬，引領我們全家，並照亮全世界！你把你的熱情與執(zhí)著留給了我的媽媽（李玉），你把你的淡雅和從容留給了大姨(李允晨），你把你的康慨留給了我的二姨（李延），你把你卓越的口才留給了我的舅舅（李肅）。 謝謝你熱愛音樂，相信人性美，一生勤勉，牽手你最愛的姥爺，完成你完美的一生。姥姥，你安息吧！你建立的家園，你卓越的思想，夢想和行動，已與你子孫后代融為一體。</p><p class="ql-block">你將萬古流芳！</p><p class="ql-block">孟麒 Lisa Meng</p><p class="ql-block">寫于休斯頓5.11.2020.</p> <h3>鋼琴曲 禱告 Prayer_Celine Dion</h3> <h3>2020哀民生多艱惜母親仙逝動蕩年悲莫悲，生死離別五月五戰(zhàn)瘟疫千萬念母愛神還路漫漫樂莫樂，飛龍在天</h3> <h3>2020 端午節(jié)</h3> <h3>給媽媽換上鮮花</h3> <h3>媽媽和孟麒 2002</h3> <h3>2020 父親節(jié)</h3> <h3>孟麒18</h3> <h3>2020 Ariel 29</h3> <h3>2020 Ava Wang 滿月</h3> <h3>2020 Lisa piano recitals via zoom</h3> <h3>B day card from 大姨</h3> <h3>18 Birthday wish from mom & dad</h3> <h3>18 Birthday card from J&A</h3> <h3>18 Bday card from UC Berkeley </h3> <h3>18 B day card from 二姨</h3> <h3>Awty 2020 Class </h3> <h3>媽媽，自從你走后，我們和爸爸每天Wechat 視頻 ！幫他安排了小姚理發(fā)，...替你照顧好爸爸！</h3> <h3>媽媽，你離開我們兩個月了. 我們托云去問侯天上的你2020.7.3 </h3>